Walking away, this ish, man why is it hard to do. Even when you know you should, you know it is for the best. You know that you have tried your best. You took them back over and over no matter what. You constantly forgave them, even though you were hurting. You disregarded your feelings to make or keep them happy and for what? To get hurt, to be always crying. You see with your own damn eyes that nothing is getting better, it is a damn cycle that you are going through and yet it is still hard to walk away. When those around you also fee like the two of you should not be together, you do not hear them you still try. Even when that person shows you the real them, that they are all about self, they do not care at all. They do not want to change. Walking away is hard, and then you start to think about the few good times the two of you had, and you think maybe there is hope. In the back of your mind, you know you need to end it. Walking away can be a struggle people love hard and do not like to let go. Also feeling like you would never find a person to love you the right way, you stay and continue to deal with the drama it brings. That damn walking away takes time, it can be easy sometimes not texting or calling, and then there are times when you want that person near you. You want their touch, smell, their voice ugh its annoying. Walking away is necessary sometimes though there is no use in dragging on a relationship or situation, and that goes for anybody family relationship, romantic relationships, and friendships. Walking away from anybody or anything that you love or loved will always be a challenge. Man it is so hard.
Can you deal with it? How? Thank you for reading, please feel free to leave feedback.
2 thoughts on “Walking Away!”
When a person shows you who they are, you have to believe them. It is hard for us as women to simply walk away, most times, because we think we are “the great fixers”, we can fix it, let me give it one more try….unfortunately this is always to our detriment whether emotional, physical, financial or spiritual. But I think it’s just in our nature to nurture, so we tend to not want to walk away even though we know that we did ALL that we could do, and then some more!
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I agree and yes it is hard to walk away.
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