Goals #JustWrite Hello Happy Hump Day! Today I want to talk about goals. What do goals mean to you? When I say goals, I mean all. Short term, long term, love goals, career goals, mental goals. I have been thinking lately and decided to change things and that mean my goals too. My long-term goals […]
Goals! — Just Write and Be YOU
All posts by Ray'Elaine
Love Cycle!
- Meet each other
- Get to know each other- Months to years- depend on the people!
- Dates- How many? Who knows? People sometimes skip this
- The talks- First couple of months all sweet talk on both ends. The I miss you, cannot wait to talk or see you. Shit everything is all fine and dandy at the beginning. the sweet nothings hell everything even intimacy if that is the case
- The lying, the half-truths. The I am not telling them this or that. the battle with each other. Can get crazy at times……. Oh well you live and learn……. NEXT
- Strong- Whatever Phase, I going to do me no matter what…… (It is this way sometimes)
- Both of us will not back down……Fighting and more fighting just damn drama
- Is it love? should I give up? Is he playing me? Is she playing me? Is this real…. Nah I am tripping it cannot be…. Why I feel this way? Should I express my true self? Question to ask!
- The DOUBTING yourself and each other……..Damn, the struggle to not call, to not text, why? At this point you question everything the good, the bad. How he feels, how she feels, sometimes outside influences like damn sometimes it is too damn much……OKAY
- Time to self…… Self-reflect, constantly thinking what if, thinking for the future. is it this person or no should I try again or NO…..Damn think about self-right now. and at this time there might still be doubt but then you like hell why NOT….OKAY Let us try……see where it goes, we let it flow!
- THE COMEBACK-IF its love!
- Talking again- more often, more topics in depth, talking about goals, what each other want, how you can make it work with each other
- Dating again-More communication, No lies, Trust, Commitment, NO Games- AGAIN IF ITS LOVE
- Caution- Girl back up, Man Back up- He is mine/Or she is mine very territorial making plans with each other. No one can get the way. NO ONE! LOVE IS STRONG! It is all about us. POSWER of LOVE
- MOVING IN- THIS IS THE BIG TEST—–WHEW- We go through the motions as we really get to know each other. What we like, what we dislike, how we like this, how we like that, Privacy, Cleaning, Cooking, Eating, Intimacy, damn all of it- AGAIN if true love is in the picture you will work things out. Fighting and oh believe me you will have the dumbest fights, control. This is a tough battle. are you throwing in the towel? Are you up to it….?
- More Communication. More Bonding, More love. We love Strong!
- What’s Next? Marriage or more trying? What you think?
#JustWrite
Gingerbread House
Hay how is your night going? I am in a good mood right now and just sitting and thinking about making gingerbread houses with my family. Right now, I am making a list for everything. Do you guys have any ideas? I want to make it fun and exciting for the kids. I have been looking up some recipes and different candy ideas. I know this will be a great fun project for them. I will also have my nieces and nephews over to make one as well. Hopefully, I find everything needed and find some cool ideas. I will we posting pictures of the project when we make them. Stay tuned! Thanks for reading #JustWrite
Chill
Have a great night try to relax and have a fun night. Enjoy those around you, be kind and have peace. Love and Blessings
#JustWrite
Wednesday Night Chill
#JustWrite
Wednesday Night Chill/Cooking
Hello people. This Wednesday night I am getting ready to cook my thanksgiving dinner. I got my music playlist ready, my drinks ready, and ready to get my cook on. It is a relaxing night so far and hanging with my kids. They are so ready for tomorrow and cannot wait to eat. I am also thinking of some new ideas for games to play with my family. My dinner is not that big I am making turkey, ham, dressing, sweet potatoes, greens, macaroni, apple pies, fruit salad, sugar cookies (the kids are making these), a couple cakes haven’t decide on what kind yet. What is on your menu? What is your favorite dish to cook or eat? Well thanks for reading, about to get to it have a few things to get done. Please feel free to like, comment, or share. Thanks! #WednesdayNight
Turkey Hands
Crafting! #JustWrite
today craft idea is Turkey Hands!
My mom and my kids did turkey hands and they loved it. I have posted pictures of there project they are so cute. I have posted a link to a site where there are great craft ideas for thanksgiving for kids. Hope you enjoy! Feel free to like, comment, and share. Thank you.
18 Thanksgiving Inspired Hand Turkey Crafts For Kids (kidslovewhat.com)
Holiday Season
#JustWrite
Holiday Season!
It is the holidays! Are you excited about it or not? I am and its very unusual for me because I am not always in a good mood around the holidays, no holiday spirit. For some reason despite what is going on in this world at this moment I feel joyful. I am ready to start decorating, cook, eat, spend time with family and friends, play fun games, and do holiday arts and crafts. Also, I am so ready to go Christmas shopping, I have so many great gift ideas for those close to me. I am ready to get the shopping done and out the way. What are your favorite things to do during the holiday season? The first for me is spending time with family, being around the ones you love and receiving love is the best feeling ever just to be around each other. Another thing for me is eating lol of course and this year I have been thinking about making new desserts. Any ideas? Any good recipes I should try? Pies been on my mind lately but do not know where to start, hopefully I figure it out soon. Help please! I am looking forward to having a great time. No negativity for me this holiday season. I want my kids, family, friends, and myself to be happy and enjoy ourselves. Hope you have a blessed and safe and healthy holiday this year filled with happiness, joy, and love. Thank you for reading.
Friday Night Thoughts!
Friday!!
There is so much going on in the world right now. I just want to unplug, go ghost. Three days still no president like what is going on, Well guess we just must wait on that and that freaking suck. That is one thing, another thing on my mind is for the last couple days I have been seeing these crazy videos on the internet. From police shootings, racism going no, bullying, family fights, some extreme videos I have seen, and it is sad. Then of course this pandemic, not to mention all the violence surrounding these young rappers is very scary. R.I.P to the rapper who lost his life today. I want to send prayers for those have lost loved ones, I pray for healing of this world. I pray the world become safer and we have the right people standing beside us. I feel like when will all the bad end. I know this post is not really what people will want to hear/ read, it is just my thoughts at the moment and can’t help but to write about it that’s how I express myself, and I also know I am not the only person worried (Hope Not). Wishing love, peace, happiness, strength and guidance, praying for things to work out for the better. My mind is wondering with all types of thoughts and feelings I will continue to pray and have faith and hope you do the same. Stay prayed up people and try to wake up every morning with a good and happy outlook on life. Again, just my thoughts #JustWrite thank you for reading.
Early November
It is early November and Thanksgiving is already on my mind. I am thinking of the foods I want to cook and what I can’t wait to eat. Ready for food and Family. My favorite is Ham and Sweet Potatoes also Macaroni. Oh can’t forget the delicious desserts man man man I can not wait till that day. As I am writing and thinking about Thanksgiving I am getting hungry. Who else is ready for Thanksgiving and what are some foods/desserts you like and who are you interested in seeing? Just a thought at the moment and I #JustWrite!. Enjoy!!!
Kids and Crafts!
Happy Thursday!
Do you have kids that are glued to their screens? I have two kids who love TV and Computer games, and I am always coming up with ideas to lessen screen time. That is where arts and crafts come in, my mom would tell me sit them down with crayons and paper, did not try for a while but once I did, we took off from there. when I first thought about it, I thought they will not like it and that it will be hard to approach them with it, started with coloring/drawing, then painting and more. Years later I have added other art activities and crafts and it works. Everyday they take a step back from screen time to do crafts and sometimes and could be 30 min to 2 hours that they are crafting and enjoying their selves. I think that kids making time for art and crafts is great it is a time that they can express there self and open their imagination and that is what I love. My two kids be so excited about what they have created that it gives me joy. It is fun during the holidays, making ornaments and homemade gifts for the family. So for parents out their who have not tried or thought about trying art or crafts it is good activities for kids to do especially if you want to limit their time on the computer or watching tv I think you should try it.
I am also trying to get my kids to express their self by writing and also creating short stories, I am a writer and it helps me I like to share my ideas with people because it might be able to help them. Thanks for reading and hope you enjoy.
Just Write 