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Emotional Unavailable

I am a fortress, strong and tall 

Yet within me lies an empty hall 

I keep my emotions locked away 

Afraid to feel what they might say 

I tell myself that I am fine 

That love and pain are not worth the time 

But deep down, I know it’s not true 

For the ache inside just continues to brew 

I push away those who come too close 

And keep my heart tightly closed 

But sometimes in the dead of night 

I wonder if I’m doing this right 

Is it better to be alone and secure 

Or to risk it all and hope for more? 

I am emotionally unavailable, it’s trueΒ 

Maybe one day, I’ll let someone through 

Until then I am Ms. Emotional Unavailable! 

Blessings and Love! πŸ–€πŸ€ŽπŸ’™πŸ’šπŸ’—πŸ’›πŸ§‘β€πŸ€πŸ’œ

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True Story!!

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Detachment

Hello all!

I want to talk about detachment and what it means to me and get your thoughts on this topic.

For me, detachment is breaking away or walking away from any situation that you know is no good for you, or you feel off about situations, and are able to walk away from it with no problem easily.

Detachment, for me, is also about detaching from people out of fear of what is to come, or perhaps fear of the unknown. If that makes sense to you. I will stop talking to someone sometimes if my feelings are too much involved. Honestly, detaching from everything comes easily for me. I don’t know why I’m like this. I get into ghosting mode.

Sometimes, detaching myself is not a good thing because I feel like I hurt people in the process, and that is the last thing I want to do is hurt someone, as I definitely know the feeling. I just don’t like making connections, and then they turn out wrong for me. So, I detach myself before it can happen.

It’s crazy because I always talk about wanting to find love, but I would have to work on letting my guard down and not walking away so quickly. But saying goodbye is easy. Even when my feelings are in it, I am scared. I need to get my life together, especially at my age, and let it all out. Damn, I am so guarded, easily detachable, and have trust and abandonment issues. Yeah, I need to work on all of that. It is not good at all.

Detachment can be for the good and be for the bad depending on your situation. When it comes to detachment what comes to mind? Are you easily detachable? Are you good at goodbyes?

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Blessings and Love! πŸ–€πŸ€ŽπŸ’™πŸ’›πŸ’—πŸ§‘πŸ’šπŸ’œπŸ€β€οΈ

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Detachment: a feeling of not being emotionally involved: to have an air of detachment