I want to talk about how irritating it is when someone constantly tells me they are sorry for something they repeatedly do. I do not get it at all. Does anybody else get annoyed with this? I mean, why say you are sorry when you really are not. It is not hard to be upfront and real with someone instead of lying and saying you are sorry. That irritates me. Like seriously, do not tell me you are sorry and you do not mean it, or just tell me to send me off. Or don’t keep repeating the same messed-up behaviors and saying sorry for it time and time again. If you have to constantly lie to me, please choose to move on and not be around me; not too much to ask for.
Ugh okay just thinking out loud tonight, some people are so insensitive. Am I the only one?
Why am I such an overthinker? I tend to second-guess myself all the time, and I take a long time to make a decision. I think about everything. My mind is constantly going and thinking of stuff, whether it is good or bad. I also worry a lot, and putting that with me being an overthinker, and boom, it’s chaotic and very overwhelming. I try to sit back and relax but I can admit that sometimes I am uptight and too much going on and to worry about. I have heard some people say that being an overthinker is a bad thing.
Wow, I really need to relax and take it a day at a time. Anyway, I am overthinking right now. That is just me, the overthinker and overanalyzer. SMH.
What do you think? Are you like this? I overthink every situation I encounter, and sometimes, I feel bad about the decisions that I make. This is a trait of mine that I do not like; it can be annoying at times.
Do you have something in life, or it could be someone in life that you yearn for, that you are longing for? It can also be a place you want to be in. There can be plenty of things a person yearns for/over. Yearning for something means that you want something badly, feeling like you have to have it no matter what, and sometimes it is what can consume you (My Opinion). You know that it could be something that is good for you, can help you, or is something that is not good for you or not needed in your life. But oh, don’t you want it badly, or maybe you do feel like it is needed for you. You want these things no matter what.
Of course, this something that you are yearning for constantly stays on your mind. Just circling around being a pest. Questioning yourself about it. Asking should I or should I not? You tell yourself “I want it, I yearn for it”. You then overthink it; you think of all the pros and cons that you can. Think of ways around it or how to fully seek out what you want. Yearning and thinking.
Have you felt like you yearned for something in life? Was it a good or bad experience or thing? How did you deal with it?
I have been through that before. Twice one was my dreams. The second thing is I was yearning for someone. and honestly, it was not good for me. It was one-sided and left me feeling like a fool. I felt like I was yearning for this person and for a couple of years that person was always on my mind and I was thinking we could have had a future together. The feelings were not mutual. And yes it took a while to get over it because I wanted the person so bad, and did not fully pay attention to the things I should have. It was a live-and-learn situation. Even though I was hurt for months I had to get over it. I was yearning for the wrong thing at that time, I guess.
Why is it that we do that? Why is it that sometimes we want things that are not needed or want bad people to be in our lives? Not everyone of course I know it can be a natural thing to really want something (My Opinion) but I know there are people out there who go to the extremes to go after what they yearn for. Some call it being dedicated to what they want, or some call it going after your passion.
What do you think about this word? Been there before? Care to share?
I’m doing some writing prompts tonight and also getting other writing goals done. A writing prompt that I wanted to share is a subject I am sure people are aware of and probably talk about a lot. I just wanted to share what I think, and I also want to know what you think about the subject.
The writing prompt question is: What do you think good communication means in a relationship?
To me good communication in a relationship means having a partner who understands you and a person that you can go to to talk about anything. Especially when it comes to the relationship. Talking to each other when situations arrive and being able to talk about it and figure it out together is key. Even if you both have differences, you should be able to come together and discuss them with no problem. Do not be afraid to talk to your partner. In a relationship, a partner should be one you can always count on even for a listening ear. Being able to let each other know what you both feel and what you both want is good for a relationship. I want a partner who can feel comfortable coming to me about how they are feeling or just talk about what is on their mind. Be able to hear them and take the time to listen to them and show them you care. I would not want to be in a relationship where the other person is scared to tell me their true feelings, whether it is about the two of us or their daily struggles. I think having good communication in a relationship is very important, and it is healthy for any relationship, whether it is a parent and child relationship, a relationship between siblings, a friendship, and, of course, an intimate relationship. You should always feel comfortable going to those closest to you and communicating. I wonder how you can make the relationship work if you don’t talk about important stuff or even small situations. Talk it out. I know it can be hard depending on the person you are dealing with, but must start and try at some time,
I know you all know the saying communication is key. And yes, it is. Well, that’s my opinion on the matter. What are your thoughts?
Please feel free to share your thoughts. Also, take this writing prompt and write about it.
I am just writing tonight and, of course, thinking, and this prompt is one I wanted to talk about. Thinking and writing aloud! Communication is important in any relationship, anywhere you go or anyone you talk to. Again, these are just my thoughts. T.O.L moment!
Hope the week is going good for you, and have a good one.
Have you ever felt like you wanted a fresh start or have a reset button? Maybe a pause button like whoa damn slow down life. A fresh start would be nice for me and my family. Thinking out loud and maybe do a longer post about it tomorrow….I am tired and have too much on my mind.
That is my post my feelings tonight. A fresh start is needed. **Short Post**