A beautiful personality is a rare gem A treasure that shines from within It’s not something that can be bought or sold But rather, it’s a quality to uphold
With a beautiful personality, one can light up a room And bring joy to others in ways that can’t be assumed It’s not about looks or material possessions But rather, it’s about showing love and compassion
A beautiful personality a reflection of the heart A testament to the kindness that sets us apart It’s about being true to who we are And shining our light, both near and far
So let us cherish and nurture this gift And let it guide us through life’s many shifts For a beautiful personality is a true treasure One that only grows in value and measure
I am in an okay mood tonight. I am back to writing, and it has been some weeks since I have. I haven’t been in the mood for anything lately. Besides that, I am writing and doing a little editing for one book and also going to be writing more poetry.
Don’t know what was going on with me, but I am grateful that tonight I am writing, and it’s going great. I am currently working on three books (Whew!) and I love it when I am in a zone and the writing comes so naturally. Yes, pen is flowing honey. Taking a break soon to make dinner for the kiddos and get them ready for school tomorrow. The rest of the night is dedicated to writing. Feel like I have been slipping, so I have to get it done.
I am also working on some new content for my blog. I’m so excited about what I have going on, but it is still a work in progress.
How is the day/night going for you? Any new goals? Writing Goals? Any plans for tonight?
What’s something most people don’t know about you?
This is a good question. Though I was uncertain about writing and sharing this, I decided to just do it. So here goes. I feel like this is also a confession post.
So, about 17/18 years ago when I was 18 and 19 years old, I felt that I was in the wrong body. I felt like I was not myself and didn’t like that feeling at all. I then started to think about transitioning into a man. Yes, I was thinking about being a transgender male. When I was a teenager, my mom would have a fit about me wanting to shop in the boys’ section. My brothers would be mad at me for stealing their clothes, lol. Seriously, boxers, jeans, etc.
When I say this was on my mind constantly, it was. I was always doing research about it at the time. Looking up different surgeries to have and what types of hormone pills I would have to take. I also was looking into therapy about the whole thing. Of course, the cost of it all.
I think about this a lot now days because it was something that I strongly wanted to do. There was fear in place at the time, thinking of the negatives about the matter and what my family would think. I think about the what-ifs of the matter if I would have gone through with it.
Sometimes, I still feel like I am in the wrong body and wish I had gone through with it. Now, I just accept that I didn’t and try to be okay with my decision, though I really am not.
Well, that is something people do not know about me…..Confessions lol
I had to get that off my chest. It has really been on my mind lately like crazy. Questioning myself like should I have done it or not? Well, that’s it. Have a good one!
Of course, a little vent session with a great writing prompt.
Do you have any regrets? What is something most people don’t know about you? Care to share?
Self-love is an essential part of both mental and physical health. It involves setting boundaries, understanding your needs, and taking the time to connect with yourself to cultivate a strong relationship with yourself. Increasing your self-love can lead to greater self-confidence, more resilience, and an increase in emotional well-being.
Focus on loving and nurturing yourself by engaging in activities that bring you joy and help you feel more connected to yourself. Take the time to embrace and love who you are, both the positives and the negatives. Self-love is key to living a happier and healthier life.
Never lower yourself for a person who shows and or tell you that they do not care for or love you
Never stay stuck in an unpleasant situation if it’s bad leave (Easier said than done)
I know, try to get out of it no matter what
Never say yes when deep down inside and in your mind, you want and need to say no
Never lower yourself/expectations based on what others think or what other want
Never pretend to be someone else.
Never change yourself for someone. You are enough the way you are
Never worry about what they say worry about you
Never give up on yourself know that you are loved
Know that you are worthy, you got it
Never give them the satisfaction of seeing you down and out
Chin up move forward
Chin up be STRONG
Never be Un-YOU
I say never to many things. I have been there before in a dark place. Loving and giving my all to a person who showed me they didn’t give a damn about me and what I was going through and at that time in my life it was too much going on. A person showed me their true self and it took a while to realize and understand it all. I was just giving and giving, and I was only receiving heartache from family and friends SMH. It was not good. I say never again. If you are in a situation that you feel is not safe or you should not be there or around certain people, leave and Never look back.
-Never-
Have a good one. Love, Peace, Happiness, and Blessings all
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