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Relationships!!!

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Relationship Talk! #JustWrite

I am Not an expert. Just my feelings

Hay people, I want to talk about two of the biggest things in a relationship that I have to have. Number one is communication; this is a big deal for me especially going forward with my life. I want a person I can be able to talk to and after talking have a clear understanding on whatever that was discussed. Communication is big in a relationship, it is good if you and your partner can communicate very well when I say this I mean about any and everything. You and your partner can sit and talk and express how you feel. Communication was one of the reasons my last relationship of 11 years did not work out. I got tired of repeating myself and trying to express what was on my mind the other person never wanted to talk or want to hear me and it was so stressful and irritating. You should be able to talk to the one you love and hope that they understand you. Listen to each other and have each other’s back.

Number two is the trust which is a must. I know some will understand me on this. In a relationship, you must trust your partner and believe in them. I do not see how you can have a relationship without trust and that is for any relationship type. You must trust a person with your heart, with your feelings, judgment, skills, and financial situations, and what they tell you. You must trust that between the two it will work out, putting your all into someone that you feel has your best interest at heart and that is a big thing to trust. It is not easy. Not talking about just cheating everything above and trusting that they can do the basic responsibilities in life. Can that person keep their word? Can they be who they say they are?. So much to consider and again it is hard especially when meeting a new person.  If you have relationships based on lies it will not work, you must have a foundation built on love, trust, communication, understanding, strength, faith, and patience. Yes, it can be hard finding this but have faith. You have to work at it, relationships are hard work. I pray everyone finds love, has faith and loves with your all.

What do you need in a relationship? What is a deal-breaker for you? #JustWrite.

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updated 2*11*2022

Power??

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Having power

When you hear this word what does it mean to you? Does it mean wealthy and successful to you? Does it mean being a bully to you? Does it mean having it all, getting it by any means? To me, I see it both ways people use it when they are rich and have it all and some use it to get over on people and hurt them.

There were times when I heard a few people say I have the power to do whatever I want, the power to get what I need. They say they always get what they want, no matter what it takes. I often wonder what the hell do they mean by that. Does it mean that things go away when money is involved or will they try to buy you, manipulate, blackmail you? It makes you think without power where would some people really be? What they career would be like without power. Money and power are most often used for evil in my opinion greed get to people and they feel invincible. I could be wrong but never knew of someone who used money or power for good. Again, I might be wrong lol just my opinions. Maybe they do to cover up their wrongdoings I do not know. Or maybe I watch too much tv and read a lot of books. I feel like any person in any career field can possess a sense of power when it comes to their job and how they go about doing it. Or having sensitive information on people

I think that me from time to time being controlling is a sense of power. I want everyone to listen to what I say and do what I say, it is not a strong sense of power but a little of it. It is with family not used to make people do what they do not want to or hurt them.

If you had power and were rich, what will you do with it? Will it be used for evil or good?

Just a thought tonight. What do you think about having too much power?

Blessings and Love!

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Chill Saturday

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Happy Saturday!!!

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Chill Saturday!!

Hello everybody how is your Saturday? How is your Saturday night going? Tonight, I am vibing, I have my music going and I am writing out ides, and tittles for my book. Tonight, is a brainstorming night. I have been writing poems most of the day and now it is time to focus on my book. Tomorrow I will be editing and will be do more writing for my book. I have some book goals I am reaching towards as well as pushing myself daily to keep writing and let my creativity show.

Even though I feel like I do too much at one time, I am determined to get one or both books done. I tell myself to keep going and to have faith. So again, this night is brainstorming and me jamming to music. I have too many ideas and have to write them out and…

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Have you ever felt this way?

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Have you felt this way?

Cannot get this man off my mind, damn every day I think of him. His looks, his smile, his voice, and his damn personality. We are a match. We have great chemistry, I can have a good conversation with him, he makes me laugh, and we also can be serious too. It is just something about him. I avoid talking to him because I have strong feelings and do not know how to show it or how to tell him (my scared ass, LOL). I am so guarded and been hurt too many damn times. But for real, I just do not know what to do. Then I worry about if he feels the same way. I do not want to put my feelings out there and he do not feel the same way I do. And that will constantly bother me. What if he does not respond or never talk to me again. I probably sound crazy, but it is how I am feeling and can not shake it. Right now, I want him next to me, us talking and vibing, I want his touch, his eyes on me. Then again, I do not want to look stupid and get hurt. My emotions are everywhere tonight, and I am dinking a little and it is making it worse. Maybe it is bedtime for me because my mind is going miles and I am so over this, maybe because I know the truth. 

I guess it is what it is. Just my thoughts and feelings tonight. I really want him, like seriously, whatever.

Thank you for reading.

**More from Ray’Elaine**

https://writeblg.com/2021/02/22/love-that/

https://writeblg.com/2021/01/09/i-surrender/

https://writeblg.com/2021/07/09/lust/

Another One!!

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Hello all, how is it going?

For me I am very excited today. Been having positive vibes all day. I am excited because I have published my second book. I finally published my poetry book that been in the works for a year (Yeah That LONG). Been trying to get out of my comfort zone and being too much in my head. I am ready to be a good author and put my best work out. I am also working on a part two for my first book, so I have been very busy. Keep going till I make my dreams come true.

Yes, it has been a journey, but I did not give up. Hard work and tears lol. Just want to share my excitement with you guys. My blog is my safe place and I let you all know everything, so of course I had to share this good news. I also want to encourage people to get out and chase their dreams and to never give up on yourself. It is not always easy but have faith, strength, passion, and dedication. You got this! Reach For Those Stars!

Yay, two books published and more to come. Thanks for all the support, everyone. I appreciate it so much. The name and links to my books will be posted below.

Have a good one.

Blessings and Love! 🖤💛💙💚💜🤎🧡❤️🤍💓💗

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