Love Cycle!

  • Meet each other
  • Get to know each other- Months to years- depend on the people!
  • Dates- How many? Who knows? People sometimes skip this
  • The talks- First couple of months all sweet talk on both ends. The I miss you, cannot wait to talk or see you. Shit everything is all fine and dandy at the beginning. the sweet nothings hell everything even intimacy if that is the case
    • The lying, the half-truths. The I am not telling them this or that. the battle with each other. Can get crazy at times……. Oh well you live and learn……. NEXT
  • Strong- Whatever Phase, I going to do me no matter what…… (It is this way sometimes)
  • Both of us will not back down……Fighting and more fighting just damn drama
  • Is it love? should I give up? Is he playing me? Is she playing me? Is this real…. Nah I am tripping it cannot be…. Why I feel this way? Should I express my true self? Question to ask!
  • The DOUBTING yourself and each other……..Damn, the struggle to not call, to not text, why? At this point you question everything the good, the bad. How he feels, how she feels, sometimes outside influences like damn sometimes it is too damn much……OKAY
  • Time to self…… Self-reflect, constantly thinking what if, thinking for the future. is it this person or no should I try again or NO…..Damn think about self-right now. and at this time there might still be doubt but then you like hell why NOT….OKAY Let us try……see where it goes, we let it flow!
  • THE COMEBACK-IF its love!
  • Talking again- more often, more topics in depth, talking about goals, what each other want, how you can make it work with each other
  • Dating again-More communication, No lies, Trust, Commitment, NO Games- AGAIN IF ITS LOVE
  • Caution- Girl back up, Man Back up- He is mine/Or she is mine very territorial making plans with each other. No one can get the way. NO ONE! LOVE IS STRONG! It is all about us. POSWER of LOVE
  • MOVING IN- THIS IS THE BIG TEST—–WHEW- We go through the motions as we really get to know each other. What we like, what we dislike, how we like this, how we like that, Privacy, Cleaning, Cooking, Eating, Intimacy, damn all of it- AGAIN if true love is in the picture you will work things out. Fighting and oh believe me you will have the dumbest fights, control. This is a tough battle. are you throwing in the towel? Are you up to it….?
  • More Communication. More Bonding, More love. We love Strong!
  • What’s Next? Marriage or more trying? What you think?

#JustWrite


My Friday Night!

My Friday Night!!!

Hello everyone! Yay Friday! How was your week? How was your day. I had an okay day just getting some goals completed. I got some writing done, some chores that I have been putting off for days done and yes, I am happy about that (Progress).

I am so happy tonight because I have the night to myself. I get to relax and enjoy my own company (Peace, YAY!!) I am very thankful for my dad who came to pick my kids up today and he will have them for the weekend. So happy this alone time is needed and been a long time coming (Yesss). Having some drinks, writing, brainstorming, chilling, good vibes, and Music, a joint and I am great by myself and Yes, I AM Cool With That!!

I am thankful for this day and thankful and grateful to be around the ones I love. I hope your day and night was cool. Again, this night is needed, and it has been great.

Have a great night people, wishing you all Love, happiness, Peace, and Blessings.

Thank you for reading.

Tuesday Night Chill!!

Tuesday Night!

Tonight is a chill night, of course I am writing and being myself and I have a lot on my mind and putting it on paper. At the moment it is writing, music, drinks, a vibe, chilling. I am feeling okay right now, trying to heal and it can be hard but tonight I am cool.

Hope you all had a great day! Happy Writing/Blogging!

How is your night going? What do you have planned this Tuesday night? Also love is on my mind. Remember to always love your self. Sending you all LOVE!

Wishing you Love, Peace, Happiness, and Blessings!!! Thank you for reading!

Tuesday Night Chill #ShortPost #JustWrite

Wednesday Chill

This Wednesday is just a kick back day (Not really LOL). Finally off work and tired whew long day but it’s my writing night, I am just doing a little writing and editing. Working on two books is hard and challenging but I love it. Tonight is challenging because in one book I have two different endings and another idea popped up in my mind and I have been having a hard time deciding what ending to go with. I see its going to be a long night and hopefully by the end of the week I will have my mind made up. For now I will continue to edit and see where that takes me for the night. Wish me luck. #JustWrite #Passion

-Ray’Elaine