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About Ray'Elaine

I am a author I love to write/blog and be myself. I have so many great ideas can't wait to share!

Morning!!!

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Wednesday Morning!!!!!

Every morning no matter how I feel I tell myself that I am loved, I am strong, I am beautiful and I am worth it.

Even if someone else does not see my worth I do. I teach this to my daughter and my nieces I tell them to always love their selves. Loving yourself and believing in your self comes from within.

Good Morning People this is how I get ready in the morning happy face or sad face I have to remind myself how far I have come and I am still going. Remember to always love yourself through it all. Hope you all have a great day and do not let the troubles of the day get you down and yes I know it can be hard, but do your best and think positive. I wish you all a good day, love, peace, happiness, and blessings.

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Happy Hump Day!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

My Thoughts!

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My Thoughts (Ugh)

I try my best to keep a clear head and positive thoughts but right now I just feel so low and alone. I feel like somethings will never I change, and I have to really accept that, and it is hard. Especially when you work your hardest to make things work out for the better. I just feel so lost right now and do not know what to do. This is so annoying the feeling of hopelessness. And at the moment I have to walk away from the BS it is not worth my peace. Sometimes people just drain you, ugh irritating and painful.

Guess I will try to do some writing and hopefully that will get my mind off things for a while. It is kind of hectic at the moment.

What do you do when you feel this way? Lost? Hopeless? What do you do…

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Intimacy!

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Intimacy

Want to talk about intimacy and different types of intimacy. Also, my thoughts on it and what I want out of intimacy. Of course, the word intimacy in most people mind is just dealing with sex, but there is more to it and other ways to be intimate, and I want to discuss it. Not a professional just my thoughts on it!

First, I want to talk about having a partner in a relationship that you can go to and talk about anything, and I mean anything even on a subject you both do not agree on, you both can have a good discussion about the subject without arguing and fighting about it. This can be in a friendship also with family this is called intellectual intimacy. I would want this in any relationship I am in. Want to be able to talk to a person with complete honesty and not get judgement like I will do for others. A person who can hear what I am saying. Another type is spiritual intimacy a couple who are on the same page and believe the same thing when it comes to spiritually. That can be a good type of way to bond with your partner and a way to talk and heal each other when problems come up. Both having faith and willing to pray together. Praying for each other, building a strong connection through faith. Emotional intimacy is important too, being they’re for a person and having compassion is good. Listening and understanding, a shoulder to cry on. A person who cares if they hurt you or not, a person who protects your heart and you protect theirs. Physical intimacy is a type of intimacy with looking in each other eyes, touching, hugging, kissing, holding hands. Connection through physical touch and letting your partner know how much you love them. I would like all of these in relationship being grounded and strong with each other. Intimacy is not all about sex through these different types is how you can build in a relationship. Take the time to get to know each other on different levels, grow together. And have good communication just want to say that. Again, not a professional

What does intimacy mean to you? How do get to know a person? Do you agree with the types I listed above? Feel free to like, comment, and share.

Blessings and Love!

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Mirror

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Mirror

Looking in the mirror

Sometimes loving what I see, who I am

At times hating what I see, hating who I am

Mirror

Sometimes gives me strength

Talking to me words of wisdom

At times words are harsh, mean

Mirror

Sometimes I feel so beautiful

And yet times ugly

Mirror

Its sometimes easy to lie to me

The mirror shows truth, pain, past

Mirror

Who am I fooling?

While facing me

In

The mirror I see

Yeah, sometimes I do not want to face

The ugliness, darkness, sometimes truth

In the

Mirror

That’s how we face everything

Staring at ourselves, looking deep within, our soul

And I, We

Can’t lie, can’t deny

The

Truth is

In

The

Mirror

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Curious

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Curious!!

Big world, so many things to learn. Always have been the type of person who is curious. Wanted to know why and how things were made and how they work. Curious me. I also love to learn about new stuff no matter the topic I get excited. Curious me. Big world, so much to explore, to research. Such as other countries, other cultures, different states, animals, so much. Is it just me? Curious me. How stuff was made, wrote, thought process I sometimes want to know it all. Is that weird? I do not think so, I think that it is great to knowledge on varies of topics. Keep your mind open be willing to learn new things, new behaviors. Curious me. History, weather, space, cars, sports, mathematics, science, arts. What makes the world what it is. Exploring different islands, lands, seas, oceans, rivers, food, music, life lessons. Curious me. Buildings, houses, museums, dinosaurs, different holidays. Yeah, I know I can’t know everything but like to keep up on things past and new. People might think whoa too much information to take in, but it is knowledge having a good education and learning more each day is a plus for me. Curious me. What do you think? Just me being curious about the world. Are you curious?

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A Fragrance

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A Fragrance!

Hello,

How many of you have a certain fragrance that you love that the smell brings calm to you. Every time you smell it, it brings you to a happy place, a place of peace. A fragrance you must have no matter what lotions, creams, lip balms, perfumes, body mist, candles, and more.

For me it is the scent Warm Vanilla Sugar. Yes, I love that scent. And sometimes makes me want sugar cookies lol. It is a fragrance that I have to have the lotion and body cream, and bath bomb and shower gel.  I don’t know it just feel and smell good and makes me feel the same way. Maybe I am weird though lol. I currently use the Warm Vanilla Sugar body cream from bath and body works and leaves me feeling wonderful.

What is your favorite scent/fragrance? Is it a must have? Just sitting and thinking of my favorite things and this came to mind. What yall think?

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Challenge

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Challenge

I challenge myself daily, pushing myself and family to always to do what is right and be on top of things. Goals are important to me and I ty to accomplish them. I do my best to be a good leader, parent, daughter, sister, and friend. Learning along the way and still challenging the inner me.

I love to out do myself if that makes sense lol try to do things over and better. Challenge the inner me and surviving.

It is a challenge daily. Yes indeed! And I am all for it.

Have a good one.

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