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About Ray'Elaine

I am a author I love to write/blog and be myself. I have so many great ideas can't wait to share!

T.O.L-Dating

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Just sitting and thinking should I start dating? Am I ready for that?
Good Day people!!!

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Date or No?

Questioning myself lately and asking am I ready to date? Thinking about relationships, love, and having someone by my side. Getting that lonely feeling. Just a little scared honestly of putting myself out there, letting my guard down. I also think that it is time to at least try to meet new people. I am a homebody and I need to get out of that. Want to live a little and be happy enjoying my life. My life consists of motherhood, working, writing all day every day. Do some different things. Just doing a little thinking well of course and it’s on my mind. Just don’t know when I would work up the courage to actually do it. Lol.

I am still a work in progress and still trying to learn to trust. Blah Blah Blah my life is boring…. Thinking out loud.

Blessings and love!

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Heart VS Mind

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Heart VS Mind

When there is a power struggle between what your mind tells you and how your heart feel. Sometimes it is hard to make choice because of the conflict between the two.

Some people will say always go with you mind. They say if your mind is constantly telling you should then follow your mind.

Then some people say you should follow your heart. How you feel inside will never steer you wrong go with the feelings of the heart.

Then it is the back and forth of making the right choice.

The power struggles

The conflict

The battle

Heart VS Mind

Mind VS Heart

Thank You For Reading.

Bond and Love!

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Bond and Love!

Hello everyone, how is your night going? Tonight, I want to talk about being a parent and the bond between parent and child.

There is nothing like have a bond with your children. I look at my two children and I know that they fulfill me. I do my best and want to give them the world. The love and bond between a parent and child to me is unmatched. Yes, there will be ups and downs of course that is life. All you can do as a parent is teach them what is right, teach them leadership, discipline, talk to them and always check to see how they are feeling, build them up, teach them responsibilities, teach them finances, and pray over them and for them. Yes, a difficult task, but when you start a family it is what you signed up for it is your…

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Just You!

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Just want to be held

Touched

Wanted

Loved by

You

Just want to

Be in a

Dreamy state

With only

You

Lust or love

Just want to hear

Your voice

Tell me

The sweet nothings

You

Tell me I am

All yours

Just want

All of you

Maybe for a night

Maybe for lifetime

In this moment

You are what I see

Damn

Feelings are all out

Dazed and confused

Brought on by

You

Just to want you

Am I a fool?

Being lost in you

Maybe

But I

Can’t shake it

The feeling to

Be under

Your love

Lust or love

Should I be that fool

For

YOU!

Thank you for reading.

**Poetry** #JustWrite #Write

Relaxing!

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Saturday Night Thinking and Writing. How is your night going???

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Relaxing Monday Night

Hello all. This night, Just sitting here letting the pen do the work. Letting these word flow freely. I have so much on my mind and want to let out somethings tonight. It has been kind of hectic lately and I am trying to figure things out and get grip on life, and when I am stressed, I write. Hopefully the rest of the night I can stop overthinking about the small stuff. Also hopefully I can get some sleep tonight, the last couple days I have not been able to get a goodnight rest. Been very stressed though. Wish I had some sleepy time tea right now but whatever(I'll just have to deal with it). Going to get a little more done now. Kids are in bed so I will be going to bed soon.....Hopefully lol

So that is my night writing and relaxing. How is…

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The Feeling of Secure!

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The Feeling of Secure!

Just to be with you, around you, knowing you are there for me

I feel safe and secure. Everything from my mind, my heart, and my body it all feels secure with you

The feelings you give me, makes me light up, I get excited

My inner thoughts, my peace, my life is secure with you. I know that I can talk to you about anything, I can come to you for anything, you will not judge me

Secure in your embrace, I do not want it to end, feel secure with each other

I want to feel secure with you forever!

Thank you for reading.

#Poetry #Secure #Love #JustWrite

Monday Night! Write Night!

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Tonight is a write and edit night. Been at it all day and am still on it, I am making progress and love it. That is tonight’s blog post. Writing, Music, and I. Such a good mood!

Hope all is good with you all and you got some goals completed today. Love yourself and those close to you. Have a good one.  That’s all I got for you tonight. Focused.

Blessings and Love.

Thank you for reading.

Fear

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Why is it that fear seems to be a reason that holds us back? Well, some people including me. Is it the fear of the unknown that makes us pause and put on hold what we really want to do? Is it the fear of rejection? The fear of taking risks. The fear of not being good enough?  Fear can bring a lot to a halt.

For me, it is the fear of the unknown. I tend to shut down because I don’t know what is to come. That is why it has been taking a while with my book. I know I am good at writing and have a creative imagination and good ideas. I question everything and think of the what if’s, what if it is not good enough, what if people don’t like what I put out. Questions swimming around in my head and sometimes the fear to continue the projects I have going. Fear to put my work out and fear to fully put myself out there and do what is necessary. The fear to take the risks to get out of my comfort zone. Anyone else had or have this problem? Though there is fear within me I am still trying to overcome it. I tell myself that I must change a lot and be willing to do different things that I normally don’t do. I do feel like it is fear that is holding me back. Writing for this blog sometimes comes easy and I just write and just do. I have two books that I am working on still been a year and need to get them done and published. Want to get over the fear of being rejected and the fear of the unknown. Also, get rid of the overthinking too. Want to get rid of my fear of publishing my books and my fear of driving. I know crazy that I love to write but am scared to put some of my work out in the world. SMH. I know I have to have faith and pray the fears away.

Fears make you stop and not want to do anything. Fear has a way of getting in the way of life. Some people stay living in fear and don’t know how to get out of it. Fear can tear you down if you can’t overcome it. Being afraid can ruin your life.

Again, it can hold some back. And I don’t like that I have a little fear, but it is my life and I own it and trying to change it.

What do you think? Ever feared something in life? Do you like to take risks? Is fear getting in the way of your life? What does fear mean to you?

Blessings and Love! Have Faith.

Thank you for reading.