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Love or Lust??

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Crazy: Love, Lust


Hello everyone,

Y’all know that feeling. The feeling of being in love or you think you are. You’re in the stage of feeling all the emotions like all of them. You don’t like them or their ways; everything irritates you. You question everything, wondering if you made the right decision or if it is LUST. Is it real, or are they using you, or are you using them? What is it? You love them, you hate them sometimes need space from each other. I call it the test phase where both parties like to test each other and push buttons and get reactions.

Smh but that’s what happens when you are really not sure if it’s love or lust or if it’s the person you really want. Sometimes it can be just sex that keep two people together, there is no real love between them. Some might think so but NO. Why do we put ourselves in situations like this? If it is real love, it will not hurt you, make you feel low and sad, or have you second-guessing yourself. I’m just saying this love thang can be Crazy. Seriously 😂

Am I the only one who thinks so? I get there will be ups and downs in relationships, but if they are constant and you feel stuck, it’s too much to deal with, or you feel like you both cannot get on better terms, LEAVE. I feel a person should not settle or put up with BS just to not be or feel alone. What do you guys think? Do you choose love or lust?


Blessings All
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**Not an expert. Just my thoughts please feel free to like, comment, and share**

Diligent 

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My dear friend, let me tell you of a trait so fine 
Consistency is what sets me apart. It’s truly mine 

Diligence is my motto I never back down 
No matter what life throws at me, I stand my ground 

I wake up early to seize the day 
I work hard and never stray 

My goals are set, I know what I want 
I follow my dreams with every breath and grunt 

Consistent in my efforts, I never give in 
I’ll climb every mountain until I win 

Through thick and thin, I’ll keep pushing on 
For I am consistent, and my diligence is vital 

So if you want to succeed, take a page from my book 
Stay focused, stay driven, and never overlook 

The power of consistency, the strength of diligence 
For they are the keys to a life of richness 

Blessings and Love! 

Thank you for reading. 

Not Forcing! 

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In this era of all about me 

I won’t force a relationship, you see 

My focus is on self-love and growth 

Not on pleasing others or making oaths 

I won’t settle for just anyone 

Or try to change to fit someone 

My worth is not defined by another 

I’ll wait for the right one, like no other 

I’ll cherish my own time 

And let my heart heal and shine 

I’ll nurture my soul, my mind, my heart 

And when the time is right, a new love will start 

Let me be, in this all-about-me phase 

I won’t force a relationship just to pass the days 

I’ll wait for a love that’s true and real 

Until then, I’ll focus on myself and how I feel 

Blessings and Love! 

Thank you for reading. 

T.O.L-Dating!

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Date or No?

Questioning myself lately and asking am I ready to date? Thinking about relationships, love, and having someone by my side. Getting that lonely feeling. Just a little scared, honestly, of putting myself out there and letting my guard down. I also think that it is time to at least try to meet new people. I am a homebody and I need to get out of that. Want to live a little and be happy enjoying my life. My life consists of motherhood, working, and writing all day, every day. Do some different things. Just doing a little thinking, well, of course, and it’s on my mind. Just don’t know when I would work up the courage to actually do it. Lol.

I am still a work in progress and still trying to learn to trust. Blah Blah Blah my life is boring…. Thinking out loud.

Blessings and love!

Thank you for reading.

Pampered!

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In tranquil hues of dawn’s soft light, I wake
To scents of lavender in air’s embrace
With every breath, a vow of care I make
To honor self with love and gentle grace
A symphony of peace in my own space
Where time stands still, and worries fade away
In warmth of bubbles, stress begins to flake
As whispered comforts, my spirits sway
This pampered day, my heart’s own sweet bouquet
A cherished pause, in life’s relentless fray!

-Pampered-


Blessings and Love!
Thank you for reading.

Lessons II

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There are lessons we learn in life. Whether we like it or not. We have the choice of deciding how we deal with it. We can choose to change things, accept what the lesson is and learn from it. Or we can continue to make the same mistakes. Ignoring what the lesson is and keep going down the wrong path. Again, we have choices. We must choose wisely. With everything in life.

Learn from it and move on and do better.

Lessons… What is life without them!

Have a good one!

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Lessons

Those Lessons!!! It is LIFE!

I Got Me! 

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I got me always, that is my guarantee 

Through thick and thin, it’s just me and me 

I am my own anchor, my own guide 

In times of trouble, I won’t hide 

I got me always, in the darkest night 

I’ll be my own source of light 

I’ll pick myself up, no matter the fall 

I’ll stand tall, I’ll give my all 

I got me always, and that’s just fine 

I’ll be my own reason to shine 

I’ll chart my own path, make my own way 

I’ll live my life, day by day 

I got me always! 

Blessings and Love! 

Thank you for reading. 

Crave Him!

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In moonlit whispers, my heart’s soft plea

A craving deep, where shadows play and hide

His presence, a balm, so wild and free

In dreams, our souls in silent dance collide

His absence, a void, vast and wide

In the quiet night, my desires speak

A sincere wish, the stars are asked to guide

For him, my spirit grows hopelessly weak

In every silent moment, in every tear-streak

Oh, how I long for him, with passion peaked!

-Crave Him-

Blessings and Love!

Thank you for reading.

Crave!

We Come Alive!

Would you rather? #2

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Hello, my blog peeps!

Tonight, I want to have a would you rather post/discussion. I would list some would you rather questions and give my input/answers to them. Feel free to answer one or all if you like. I would love to hear your thoughts and answers. Nothing too hard, simple, and they are random questions.

Here we go!!!!

  1. Would you rather be invisible or be able to fly?

I think I would want to be invisible. I don’t like to be seen or like being in large crowds. I want to be invisible everywhere I go. I would also use it to pull pranks on people. LOL. Flying is a good one also, but I rather be invisible.

2. Would you rather lose a finger or have a headache every day for the rest of your life?

This one is easy to pick for me. I would rather lose a finger. I get headaches and migraines, and that is a pain in the ass. No, thank you for that.  I would lose that finger and have to deal with it not being there instead of everyday pain. Losing one finger won’t be so bad…Right?

3. Would you rather have an arranged marriage or spend the rest of your life single?

I would rather be single for the rest of my life. If it is an arranged marriage, there are no guarantees that I and that person would get along. I think that an arranged marriage would probably be miserable if there is no like, no love, nothing. If I knew the person or knew exactly how the marriage would go then cool, I am in if not I would pass. Being single is fine. Agree or disagree?

4. Would you rather want to be able to speak any language or be able to communicate with animals?

With this one, I would want to do both. If I had to choose, I would want to be able to communicate with animals—just to have a good conversation with a lion or a dolphin, all types of animals. It might be weird, but I think it would be cool. Interesting both of them would be!

5. Would you rather have a good relationship with bad sex or a bad relationship with good sex?

I would rather have a good relationship with bad sex; I feel that you can always learn or teach your partner. I would not want to be in a bad relationship at all. In a bad relationship, it might be hard to get the person to change. My thoughts. So, this was an easy one for me.

So, what would you rather do?

Have a good one!

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Would you rather? #1

Power?

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When you hear this word, what does it mean to you? Does it mean wealth and success to you? Does it mean being a bully to you? Does it mean having it all and getting it by any means? To me, I see it both ways. People use it when they are rich and have it all, and some use it to get over on people and hurt them.

There were times when I heard a few people say I have the power to do whatever I want and get what I need. They say they always get what they want, no matter what it takes. I often wonder what the hell they mean by that. Does it mean that things go away when money is involved or will they try to buy, manipulate, or blackmail you? It makes you think, without power, where would some people really be? What their career would be like without power. Money and power are most often used for evil. In my opinion, greed gets to people, and they feel invincible. I could be wrong, but I never knew of someone who used money or power for good. Again, I might be wrong, lol. just my opinions. Maybe they do to cover up their wrongdoings I do not know. Or maybe I watch too much TV and read a lot of books. I feel like any person in any career field can possess a sense of power when it comes to their job and how they go about doing it. Or having sensitive information on people

I think that me from time to time being controlling is a sense of power. I want everyone to listen to what I say and do what I say, it is not a strong sense of power but a little of it. It is with family not used to make people do what they do not want to or hurt them.

If you had power and were rich, what would you do with it? Will it be used for evil or good?

Just a thought tonight. What do you think about having too much power?

Blessings and Love!

Thank you for reading.