Questioning myself lately and asking am I ready to date? Thinking about relationships, love, and having someone by my side. Getting that lonely feeling. Just a little scared, honestly, of putting myself out there and letting my guard down. I also think that it is time to at least try to meet new people. I am a homebody and I need to get out of that. Want to live a little and be happy enjoying my life. My life consists of motherhood, working, and writing all day, every day. Do some different things. Just doing a little thinking, well, of course, and it’s on my mind. Just don’t know when I would work up the courage to actually do it. Lol.
I am still a work in progress and still trying to learn to trust. Blah Blah Blah my life is boring…. Thinking out loud.
In tranquil hues of dawn’s soft light, I wake To scents of lavender in air’s embrace With every breath, a vow of care I make To honor self with love and gentle grace A symphony of peace in my own space Where time stands still, and worries fade away In warmth of bubbles, stress begins to flake As whispered comforts, my spirits sway This pampered day, my heart’s own sweet bouquet A cherished pause, in life’s relentless fray!
Tonight, I want to have a would you rather post/discussion. I would list some would you rather questions and give my input/answers to them. Feel free to answer one or all if you like. I would love to hear your thoughts and answers. Nothing too hard, simple, and they are random questions.
Here we go!!!!
Would you rather be invisible or be able to fly?
I think I would want to be invisible. I don’t like to be seen or like being in large crowds. I want to be invisible everywhere I go. I would also use it to pull pranks on people. LOL. Flying is a good one also, but I rather be invisible.
2. Would you rather lose a finger or have a headache every day for the rest of your life?
This one is easy to pick for me. I would rather lose a finger. I get headaches and migraines, and that is a pain in the ass. No, thank you for that. I would lose that finger and have to deal with it not being there instead of everyday pain. Losing one finger won’t be so bad…Right?
3. Would you rather have an arranged marriage or spend the rest of your life single?
I would rather be single for the rest of my life. If it is an arranged marriage, there are no guarantees that I and that person would get along. I think that an arranged marriage would probably be miserable if there is no like, no love, nothing. If I knew the person or knew exactly how the marriage would go then cool, I am in if not I would pass. Being single is fine. Agree or disagree?
4. Would you rather want to be able to speak any language or be able to communicate with animals?
With this one, I would want to do both. If I had to choose, I would want to be able to communicate with animals—just to have a good conversation with a lion or a dolphin, all types of animals. It might be weird, but I think it would be cool. Interesting both of them would be!
5. Would you rather have a good relationship with bad sex or a bad relationship with good sex?
I would rather have a good relationship with bad sex; I feel that you can always learn or teach your partner. I would not want to be in a bad relationship at all. In a bad relationship, it might be hard to get the person to change. My thoughts. So, this was an easy one for me.
Tonight, I want to have a Would You Rather post/discussion. I would list some Would You Rather questions and give my input/answers to them. Feel free to answer one or all if you like. I would love to hear your thoughts and answers. Nothing too hard, and they are random questions.
Here we go!!!!
Would you rather be able to travel everywhere for free OR eat everywhere for free?
. I would rather travel everywhere for free. I would love to visit different countries for free and explore all that I can at any time. I think I would travel maybe once or twice a month or a month to each place I visit. It would be cool to learn about diverse cultures and meet new people and more.
2. Would you rather find the love of your life OR find your passion?
. This one here is kind of a toss-up, but of course, I would rather find my passion. Finding something I absolutely love, and it brings me peace is what I would rather have. Something that speaks to me, and I am willing to put in the work and take the steps to find what is for me. My passion, hopes, and dreams. I feel like that is more important (in my opinion). Find my passion and reach for the stars.
3. Would you rather live in a world where you dance instead of walk OR sing instead of talk?
. I would rather live in a world where I dance instead of walk. I love to dance so this is an easy one for me. I dance while cooking, cleaning, eating, and sitting, in the show, I just dance. So, I would be okay with dancing instead of walking. I cannot sing for anything; sound like a fucking broken record lol; singing is not for me. I would rather dance my ass off. LOL
4. Would you rather drink milk out of a crusty old man’s belly button every day for a month OR let a crusty old man drink milk out of your belly every day for a year?
I would rather have a crusty old man drink milk out of my belly button for a year. Yeah, that might sound kinky, but that is okay, lol. I do not think I can drink milk out of his belly. So yeah, this one is fun and funny. LOL.
I have been thinking about starting a gratitude journal it has been heavily on my mind lately. I heard that keeping a gratitude journal is a good idea, and it helps a lot. I do not know where to start but I will try it and see how it goes. I already write so that helps. I am looking for more ways to stay positive these days and someone said I should start with a gratitude journal. I have added it to my month of February goals, and I am ready and dedicated to it. I am sure it is not that hard, I have to start somewhere, somehow. Hopefully, it is something I love and will continue it.
Gratitude is the quality of being thankful and ready to show appreciation for and return kindness.