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Fear…

Why is it that fear seems to be a reason that holds us back? Well, some people including me. Is it the fear of the unknown that makes us pause and put on hold what we really want to do? Is it the fear of rejection? The fear of taking risks. The fear of not being good enough?  Fear can bring a lot to a halt.

For me, it is the fear of the unknown. I tend to shut down because I don’t know what is to come. That is why it has been taking a while with my book. I know I am good at writing and have a creative imagination and good ideas. I question everything and think of the what if’s, what if it is not good enough? What if people don’t like what I put out. Questions swimming around in my head, and sometimes the fear of continuing the projects I have going. Fear to put my work out and fear to fully put myself out there and do what is necessary. The fear to take the risks to get out of my comfort zone. Has anyone else had or had this problem? Though fear is within me, I am still trying to overcome it. I tell myself that I must change a lot and be willing to do different things that I usually don’t do. I do feel like it is fear that is holding me back. Writing for this blog sometimes comes easy, and I just write and just do. I have three books that I am working on, and I need to get them done and published. Want to get over the fear of being rejected and the fear of the unknown. Also, get rid of the overthinking too. Want to get rid of my fear of publishing my books and my fear of driving. I know crazy that I love to write but am scared to put some of my work out in the world. SMH. I know I have to have faith and pray the fears away.

Fears make you stop and not want to do anything. Fear has a way of getting in the way of life. Some people stay living in fear and don’t know how to get out of it. Fear can tear you down if you can’t overcome it. Being afraid can ruin your life.

Again, it can hold some back. And I don’t like that I have a little fear, but it is my life and I own it and trying to change it.

What do you think? Ever feared something in life? Do you like to take risks? Is fear getting in the way of your life? What does fear mean to you?

Blessings and Love! Have Faith.

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Author’s Day!

Hello my blog peeps!

Today is National Author’s Day!

Today is the perfect day to celebrate our favorite writers who have shared their works of art with the world. Let’s share our appreciation for all the authors who have given us stories, poems, and plays over the years. From Joseph Conrad to Toni Morrison, Jane Austen to Maya Angelou and many more.

Shout out to all writers, poets, bloggers, journalist, authors everywhere!!

β€”Happy Authors Day!

Always go for your dreams. Embrace your creativity!

Blessings and Love!

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Happy Wednesday!

Good morning all!

New month, new goals and a new mindset! Make the best of today and have a great day!

Blessings and Love! πŸ–€πŸ€ŽπŸ’™πŸ’šπŸ’—πŸ’›πŸ§‘πŸ€πŸ’œ

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On the inside- A different person

This here. Wrote this when I felt shady people were around me. Yeah still feel this way today. SMH. Share!!!

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A different person

You ever met a person who is beautiful, handsome and has it all together? Or so it seems that way.

On the outside everything is great. The person seem nice, strong, independent, has goals, but on the inside, the real them tells a different story. They can look a certain way to please who they want which is a cover up but act differently around others. They can be extremely mean and unpleasant to be around.

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It is crazy how well you think you know a person when in all honesty you do not know anything but what they tell which is of course lies. Do you know anyone like this? Later down the road you start to think who the hell is this person? What happened to the person I met? Man, these people are good at what they do…

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Just Write

I am having a chill night. Still need to do more editing but will do that another day. Tonight, just getting ideas and thoughts out on paper and of course writing to keep my mind of stuff and today it is working so I am good with that. Trying to complete at least 3 more chapters maybe 4(Hopefully) before bed tonight even though I am tired I will push through and meet that goal.

I have writing goals that I try to make and complete every weekend. So much good content tonight that I have a big smile on my face I love this feeling seriously. Of course, got my music playing in a vibey mood. This is my Saturday night!!!! Well back to it then. Hope your night is going great. πŸ–€πŸ–€πŸ’™πŸ’™

How is your weekend going? Any writing? What do you like to write about? Any exciting plans?

Love, Peace, Happiness, and Blessings AllπŸ’š

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It is up to you (Life)

Life is full of challenges

It is up to you to how you face them or handle them

Life is full of choices

It is up to you to make the right ones

Life is full of chances

It is up to you to take them

Life is full of dreams

It is up to you to follow yours

Life is full of life

Your life is in your hands

No one can make your decisions for you

In life

It is up to you!

Blessings and Love! πŸ–€πŸ€ŽπŸ’™πŸ’—πŸ’šπŸ’›πŸ§‘β€πŸ’œπŸ€

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Have you ever felt this way?

Cannot get this man off my mind, damn every day I think of him. His looks, his smile, his voice, and his damn personality. We are a match. We have great chemistry, I can have a good conversation with him, he makes me laugh, and we also can be serious too. It is just something about him. I avoid talking to him because I have strong feelings and do not know how to show it or how to tell him (my scared ass, LOL). I am so guarded and been hurt too many damn times. But for real, I just do not know what to do. Then I worry about if he feels the same way. I do not want to put my feelings out there and he do not feel the same way I do. And that will constantly bother me. What if he does not respond or never talk to me again. I probably sound crazy, but it is how I am feeling and cannot shake it. Right now, I want him next to me, us talking and vibing, I want his touch, his eyes on me. Then again, I do not want to look stupid and get hurt. My emotions are everywhere tonight, and I am dinking a little and it is making it worse. Maybe it is bedtime for me because my mind is going miles and I am so over this, maybe because I know the truth.Β 

I guess it is what it is. Just my thoughts and feelings tonight. I really want him, like seriously, whatever.

Blessings and Love! πŸ–€πŸ€ŽπŸ’™πŸ’—πŸ’šπŸ’›πŸ§‘β€πŸ€πŸ’œ

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**More from Ray’Elaine**

https://writeblg.com/2021/02/22/love-that/

https://writeblg.com/2021/01/09/i-surrender/

https://writeblg.com/2021/07/09/lust/