Tag Archives: Relationship

Want What You Cannot Have.

Want it, Can’t Have it…..

Have you been in a situation where you have to walk away from someone love because you knew in your heart that the two you would not have worked out? I am just sitting here thinking of that person and I miss him. Been feeling so lonely lately and thinking and missing him is making me feel worse because that is who I want. Badly. I miss the way he used to look at me, our conversations, our silliness, our vibe, the compliments, and him always being real with me. We had to walk away from each other, and it still hurts. I want him in my life, and I still feel that it would not work out for me due to me knowing this person well the way they think, and their personality. Sometimes it annoys me wondering about what if. What would happen if we did have a relationship? What if we try now? Wondering if I made a mistake when I had to walkway from him. Hate feeling this way and again feel lonely and want him next to me even if not in a relationship with me just to talk to each other would be good. I need to find something to do because he is too much on my mind. SMH, I do not like it. He probably does not still feel the same way. Should I reach out or just leave it alone? Maybe too much time has passed.

 Or

Have you ever had a person in your life that could not let go? Did all the wrong things in the relationship and you endured a lot and decided to leave but they just will not let you go. Dealing with that currently. Yeah, today I am dealing with a lot got someone who wants me but I don’t want them I feel I tried so hard for years and got hurt and I am over it. Haven’t been with this person for years and they won’t let up. Yeah, fucking annoying. And then I want someone who probably does not want me or thinking about me at all, the difference is I am not bugging the other person or begging them to want me. Constantly calling or texting them. It is the want what I cannot have syndrome we both got I guess lol. Emotions are everywhere though

Damn, can I catch a break…. LOL a little too much at the moment.

That damn feeling of wanting what you cannot have……

Blessings and Love!

Thank you for reading.

The Hard Truth.

When honesty requires a painful sting

And truth is hard to bear but must be heard

The poet’s pen can be a powerful thing

To speak the words that cannot be deferred.

For though the truth may wound and cause some strife

It’s better than the comfort of a lie

And in the end, it leads to a better life

With clarity that cannot be denied.

So let us not shy away from hard truths

But face them head-on with courage and grace

And with our words, let’s offer honest proof

That truth can be a gift, not just a face.

And though it may be hard to speak what’s true

The poet’s pen can help us see it through

Difficult times telling those

Hard Truths

Blessings and Love!

Thank you for reading.

Communication!

Hello All,

I’m doing some writing prompts tonight and also getting other writing goals done. A writing prompt that I wanted to share is a subject I am sure people are aware of and probably talk about a lot. I just wanted to share what I think, and I also want to know what you think about the subject.

The writing prompt question is: What do you think good communication means in a relationship?

To me good communication in a relationship means having a partner who understands you and a person that you can go to to talk about anything. Especially when it comes to the relationship. Talking to each other when situations arrive and being able to talk about it and figure it out together is key. Even if you both have differences, you should be able to come together and discuss them with no problem. Do not be afraid to talk to your partner. In a relationship, a partner should be one you can always count on even for a listening ear. Being able to let each other know what you both feel and what you both want is good for a relationship. I want a partner who can feel comfortable coming to me about how they are feeling or just talk about what is on their mind. Be able to hear them and take the time to listen to them and show them you care. I would not want to be in a relationship where the other person is scared to tell me their true feelings, whether it is about the two of us or their daily struggles. I think having good communication in a relationship is very important, and it is healthy for any relationship, whether it is a parent and child relationship, a relationship between siblings, a friendship, and, of course, an intimate relationship. You should always feel comfortable going to those closest to you and communicating. I wonder how you can make the relationship work if you don’t talk about important stuff or even small situations. Talk it out. I know it can be hard depending on the person you are dealing with, but must start and try at some time,

I know you all know the saying communication is key. And yes, it is. Well, that’s my opinion on the matter. What are your thoughts?

Please feel free to share your thoughts. Also, take this writing prompt and write about it.

I am just writing tonight and, of course, thinking, and this prompt is one I wanted to talk about. Thinking and writing aloud! Communication is important in any relationship, anywhere you go or anyone you talk to. Again, these are just my thoughts. T.O.L moment!

Hope the week is going good for you, and have a good one.

Blessings and Love!

Thank you for reading.

Want What You Cannot Have!

Want it, Can’t Have it…..

Have you been in a situation where you have to walk away from someone love because you knew in your heart that the two you would not have worked out? I am just sitting here thinking of that person and I miss him. Been feeling so lonely lately and thinking and missing him is making me feel worse because that is who I want. Badly. I miss the way he used to look at me, our conversations, our silliness, our vibe, the compliments, and him always being real with me. We had to walk away from each other, and it still hurts. I want him in my life, and I still feel that it would not work out for me due to me knowing this person well the way they think, and their personality. Sometimes it annoys me wondering about what if. What would happen if we did have a relationship? What if we try now? Wondering if I made a mistake when I had to walkway from him. Hate feeling this way and again feel lonely and want him next to me even if not in a relationship with me just to talk to each other would be good. I need to find something to do because he is too much on my mind. SMH, I do not like it. He probably does not still feel the same way. Should I reach out or just leave it alone? Maybe too much time has passed.

 Or

Have you ever had a person in your life that could not let go? Did all the wrong things in the relationship and you endured a lot and decided to leave but they just will not let you go. Dealing with that currently. Yeah, today I am dealing with a lot got someone who wants me but I don’t want them I feel I tried so hard for years and got hurt and I am over it. Haven’t been with this person for years and they won’t let up. Yeah, fucking annoying. And then I want someone who probably does not want me or thinking about me at all, the difference is I am not bugging the other person or begging them to want me. Constantly calling or texting them. It is the want what I cannot have syndrome we both got I guess lol. Emotions are everywhere though

Damn, can I catch a break…. LOL a little too much at the moment.

That damn feeling of wanting what you cannot have……

Blessings and Love! 🖤🤎💙💛💚💗🧡🤍❤💜

Thank you for reading.

At Ease!

When he came along

At a time of chaos and fear

Me in a lost and depressed state

He came along and

Put me

At ease

Just hearing his voice

The sincereness in him

The kindness in his words

Letting me know that all will be okay

He puts me at ease

Understanding me and being patient with me

Thinking, is it real?

Does he really exist

Am I tripping? Maybe. Maybe not

Constantly on my mind

The good and bad

But damn, like dammmnn

The thought of him

Has my mind at ease

Soothing

A friendship like no other

Turns into something much better

A bond

A vibe

True feelings, lust, and love

Its everything about him

Puts me at ease

No easy love here

Willing to grow, we build

Looking to see what the future brings with us

Guard coming down

With that being said

At this moment

I am at ease

Blessings and Love

Thank you for reading.

True Love!!

True Love!

Searching

Looking, wishing for

A

True love

Love that does not hurt me

Love that sees me, wants me

His love and only me

Love with us being friend’s

Soul mates

Searching, Looking

Wishing for a

True love

Love that holds me

Holding tight

I am safe

Love that brings warmth

Happiness

Love that grows

Searching, Looking

Wishing for a

True love

Love with communication

Love that trust

A great bond

Searching, Looking

Wishing for a

True love

Love with chemistry

Intimacy

Love with faith

Love with hope, light

Searching, Looking

Wishing for a

True love

Love that faces problems

But still, love

Love that is strong

Powerful

Love with dreams

Long-lasting love

I am

Searching

Looking

And

Wishing for and

Wanting a

True love!

Blessings and Love!

Thank you for reading.

Feeling of Love! 

In the stillness of the night
As the moon casts its gentle light 
I feel your lips upon mine
And my heart begins to shine

The warmth of your embrace
As we stand in this quiet space 
Fills me with a love so true
I can’t imagine life without you

In this moment, time stands still 
As we share this intimate thrill
And I know that I am blessed
To have found a love that’s best

So let us cherish this night
And all the moments that feel so right 
For in your arms is where I belong 
Forever singing love’s sweet song

Blessings and Love! 

Thank you for reading.

A True Love (Poem)

A story of love was told quite true

From deep within the soul

The music and fun were so new

Two hearts that beat fast

Forever to last

A love that was born just for two

From deep within the soul

A love so true

-A True Love-

Blessings and Love! 🖤🤎💙💛💚❤🧡🤍💜❤

Thank you for reading.

More from Ray’Elaine!!!

Great Minds

Smart, intelligent

Wise and aware

Beautiful Souls

Us alike

Great Minds

It is Love

At first sight

Great Minds

We figure life out

We work wonders

Our Minds

Great Minds

Us Alike

Combined

Imagination runs wild

Great Minds

Love, so be it

Great Minds

Us alike

Poetry, A love language

We speak

Great Minds

Us Intertwined

A force

No outside noise

Great Minds

You and I

Impossible to be together, Ray’Elaine thinks not

Great Minds

We in sight

Love

Future bright

He and I can’t deny

Our

Great Minds!

Blessings and Love! 🖤🤎💙💛💚💟🧡🤍❤

Thank you for reading.

Love or Lust??

Crazy: Love, Lust


Hello everyone,

Y’all know that feeling. The feeling of being in love or you think you are. You’re in the stage of feeling all the emotions like all of them. You don’t like them or their ways; everything irritates you. You question everything, wondering if you made the right decision or if it is LUST. Is it real, or are they using you, or are you using them? What is it? You love them, you hate them sometimes need space from each other. I call it the test phase where both parties like to test each other and push buttons and get reactions.

Smh but that’s what happens when you are really not sure if it’s love or lust or if it’s the person you really want. Sometimes it can be just sex that keep two people together, there is no real love between them. Some might think so but NO. Why do we put ourselves in situations like this? If it is real love, it will not hurt you, make you feel low and sad, or have you second-guessing yourself. I’m just saying this love thang can be Crazy. Seriously 😂

Am I the only one who thinks so? I get there will be ups and downs in relationships, but if they are constant and you feel stuck, it’s too much to deal with, or you feel like you both cannot get on better terms, LEAVE. I feel a person should not settle or put up with BS just to not be or feel alone. What do you guys think? Do you choose love or lust?


Blessings All
Thank you for reading.



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