Tag Archives: Faith

Loving The Wrong Person

Hello, my blog peeps!

Have you been in a situation where you felt it was all bad, so negative? Have you loved the wrong person before?

Loving the wrong person and being in love by yourself is disturbing and not good at all. Even when you see the signs and know that you should walk away, you love so hard, give your all and the other person does not care at all. But here you are still trying. Loving the wrong person will hurt you to your core. Being everything to them while hurting yourself, along with your mental and rational thinking out the door. It will have you questioning yourself all the time. Wondering if you are good enough. But of course, when you love someone, you will try your hardest to make it work and go the distance. You feel like you shouldn’t give up on them. Loving the wrong person can take away your smile and maybe lower your self-esteem; loving the wrong person can take a lot of you. You might feel like you will never love again. You are scared that it will happen again.

I feel I can speak on this subject somewhat because I have been there and was left feeling lost and hurt. I was in so much pain because I thought it was forever with this person (Silly Me). A reason why I am so guarded now. That feeling of being scared to fall in love again. I was loving the wrong damn person, and it had cost me. Yes, I am still healing from it and learning to deal with the issues and be okay no matter what. Loving the wrong person is so damn draining. Please, people, pay attention to those red flags that arrive; do not ignore them. Always talk about it to get an understanding. Loving the wrong person made me more aware, cautious, guarded, and distant. Though with all of that I do wish to love again and find someone special. Where I am for them, and they are for me.

Feel free to use this as a writing prompt if you like? What do you think of this topic?

Just thinking! Maybe Venting!

Have you been there before? How did you deal with it?

Have a good one!

Blessings and Love! 🖤🤎💙💛💗💚🧡💜🤍❤

Thank you for reading.

Heal (Trying)

Healing

Trying to heal and be okay with myself deep down inside. I want to be happy and I know that I will not heal over night. I read books of inspiration and also read inspirational quotes.

This process is hard but I am willing to try hard to overcome everything. Shout out to all of those who been there and made it back from it. And to those who are fighting battles and trying their hardest to overcome them. We got this. Prayer and guidance.

I have included in this blog some quotes on healing. I like them.

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It is not. It will take some time. Be Patience. I know I am!

The Turning Point

My Turning Point!!

Looking out for others can be good sometimes, but not always. There are people who like to take your kindness for weakness, and that is sad. This is a turning point.

I cannot continue to help you while you hurt me, while you put me down. Yes, it will be painful to let go but I must. This is a turning point, no more of this, helping you with tears in my eyes and a smile on your face thinking how you treat me is funny, it’s game to you.

It seems that the more I help and be there, holding on to past love, the more I hurt, hurting myself by accepting this. But baby, this here is my turning point, my turning point, my turning point.

It is time. It is over. I am moving on. I choose me, again I CHOOSE ME.

My turning point.

#JustWrite

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The Truth Hurts.

Sometimes the truth hurts

That’s just being real

The truth, though it can be hurtful

Would set you free

Sometimes that is what is needed

The lessons that come with it

The truth is sometimes a blessing and sometimes it is not

Overcoming what comes to light

Can be a struggle to deal with

But, again

Knowing the truth would set you free

And how you deal with it can change your life

But, damn

In certain situations

The damn truth hurts…

-Truth Hurts-

Blessings and Love!

Thank you for reading.

The Hard Truth.

True Love!!

True Love!

Searching

Looking, wishing for

A

True love

Love that does not hurt me

Love that sees me, wants me

His love and only me

Love with us being friend’s

Soul mates

Searching, Looking

Wishing for a

True love

Love that holds me

Holding tight

I am safe

Love that brings warmth

Happiness

Love that grows

Searching, Looking

Wishing for a

True love

Love with communication

Love that trust

A great bond

Searching, Looking

Wishing for a

True love

Love with chemistry

Intimacy

Love with faith

Love with hope, light

Searching, Looking

Wishing for a

True love

Love that faces problems

But still, love

Love that is strong

Powerful

Love with dreams

Long-lasting love

I am

Searching

Looking

And

Wishing for and

Wanting a

True love!

Blessings and Love!

Thank you for reading.

Sunday Quotes!

Today’s quotes are from Ntozake Shange

“Where there is a woman there is magic. If there is a moon falling from her mouth, she is a woman who knows her magic, who can share or not share her powers. A woman with a moon falling from her mouth, roses between her legs and tiaras of Spanish moss, this woman is a consort of the spirits.”
― Ntozake Shange

“let her be born / let her be born / & handled warmly.”
― Ntozake Shange, For Colored Girls Who Have Considered Suicide / When the Rainbow Is Enuf

Ntozake Shange 1948-2018 she was a Black feminist, a poet, and playwright

For more about Ntozake Shange: https://www.britannica.com/biography/Ntozake-Shange

Blessings!

Thank you.

#BlackWomen #Poets #Quotes

Gentle Me!

In this busy world and all its noise 

I often find myself feeling overwrought 

And though I try my best to stay poised 

I sometimes feel like I’m coming up short 

It’s in these moments that I must remind 

Myself to be gentle and kind to me 

To take a step back and not be confined 

By the standards that I should be 

For I am human, with flaws and mistakes 

And that’s okay. It’s just a part of life 

So, instead of dwelling on what I can’t make 

I’ll focus on the beauty and joy that’s rife 

And in this way, I’ll be kind and gentle 

To myself and to others. Indeed it’s fundamental! 

Blessings and Love! 

Thank you for reading. 

To Keep Your Cool!

When the heat of the moment starts to rise

And tempers flare before our eyes

Remember to take a deep breath or two

And count to ten before you do.

Find a quiet place to clear your head

And focus on your thoughts instead

Take a walk or listen to some music

To calm your nerves and help you choose it.

Think about the situation at hand

And what you can do to take a stand

But always keep your cool and be kind

To find a solution that’s fair and aligned.

So, when the world around you starts to spin

And you feel like you just can’t win

Remember to stay calm and stay true

And you’ll find a way to make it through.

Just Keep Your Cool!!

Blessings and Love!

Thank you for reading.

Discovery of Self!

Embarked on a journey

To find my true self

Guided by intuition

And the whispers of my heart

Through mountains and valleys

And oceans deep and wide

I searched and I wandered

With an unrelenting stride.

And as I journeyed further

A truth began to unfold

That the answers that I sought

Were within me all along.

So I turned inward

And listened to my soul

And found the adventure

That led me back to home.

Now I walk with purpose

And a deep sense of peace

For I know that I am whole

And my spirit is at ease.

This adventure of self-discovery

Has led me to a place

Where I am free to be myself

With love and boundless grace.

-Discovery of Self-

Blessings and Love!

Thank you for reading.

Pure Intentions 

My king, my love, my heart’s delight
With pure intentions, I hold you tight
Your regal grace and noble presence
Have captured me, my soul, my being

In every breath, I feel your love
A gift from God, a gift above
Your gentle touch, your soothing voice 
Have made my heart rejoice

With every passing day, my love for you 
Grows stronger, deeper, and truer
I pledge my heart, my soul, my all
To love you always, to heed your call 

My king, my love, my heart’s delight 
With pure intentions, I hold you tight

-Pure Intentions- 

Blessings and Love! 

Thank you for reading.