I must sit back and look at the situation, figure out what my options are, and make some decisions. I have a lot to figure out and fast. So many thoughts in my mind right now and sometimes I do not know what to do, it is hard dealing with certain situations when there are children involved. The decisions I make will affect them too. Anyway, I must do what is best for me and my family and make sure that we will be okay, that is my priority.
On another note, I have to make the right decisions regarding my writing, and my books. That is challenging because I have so many ideas and I want them all out. I need to learn that it is okay to work at a slow pace so that way it is done right, and I have good material for my readers. I do not want to rush my work and it is not good quality. This weekend I have to make my mind up on some things. Man, so many decisions need to be made. Ugh, what to do?
I’ve been thinking about all the fun things I used to do as a kid. Back when technology was just beginning and hasn’t fully taken over yet. Thinking of the good memories of the games me my family and friends used to play. Games that were fun and sometimes competitive. Games that were fun to just pass the time, especially in the summertime. Like Double Dutch, this was so fun, and I used to get lost in it and of course, thought I was the best in it. Hopscotch is another game that was fun and a pastime, and bonding with sisters, cousins, or friends. Houla Hoop is another one. This was fun, but to be honest, I wasn’t that good at it, lol. Jump roping also.
Games like hand clap (Do yall remember that one?), talent shows, charades, ding dong ditch, football-two hand touch, Hide and seek, the freeze game, Simon says, and board games on family nights. I am just sitting here thinking about it all. I feel like games like this is not around anymore and it’s kind of sad, I know things come and go. Some of these games kept my mind occupied and I loved it.
Also, little flirty games at school were fun, though some of them we had no business playing lol.
Again, I am feeling nostalgia and thinking about some good times.
What was your favorite game to play? Do you have any to add to the list? What did you do to pass the time?
I know when to unwind, and unplug when my body starts speaking. When I get weak I sometimes have migraines. I know then that I need to unplug for a while. Sometimes when I feel like I have been doing, working too much for so long I get really stressed and restless.
To unplug, on some days I will turn off all electronics, sometimes sit in peace and try not to think so much, or relax with a good book, maybe some cocktails. Then there are times when I relax with TV shows or movies and of course writing. Depends on the type of day.
When you hear about love languages, what to do you think about them?
Some people show different types of way that they love some can be called love languages. It can be a way they love or what they want from others. Love languages is for all types of relationships and what people want out of each other. There are five types of love languages that people have and can have multiple ones.
Affirmation is a love language in which a person would like to hear words that affirm how you feel about them, also they want to hear that they are loved. This love language is verbal and emotional. Some people need words of affirmation, and it helps them feel loved.
Physical touch a love language where people like to be connected by touch. Weather it is a simple touch, hugging, kissing and more. They want that physical touch. Some people show love by their physical touch and some want physical touch to feel love.
Quality time is a love language where you want to spend time with a love one. You want to share the day with them and feel connected trough bonding with one another. Quality time is a good way to show you love someone by wanting to be around them weather it’s a laid-back day or a fun day. You enjoy their company. This is a good love language.
Acts of service is a love language in which a person wants to show their love by doing anything they can to help you when in need and sometimes when you are not, they do it because they enjoy it. Some people like to show this, and some would like to have it.
Gifting is a love language that can be both giving and receiving. Giving gifts to put a smile on someone’s face and wanting to have something from you, your heart is good. There are some that likes to gift to show love and appreciation. And there are some who likes to receive gifts.
I do believe that there can be many more ways to show love of course. Many types of love languages.
For me, my love language is quality time. Weather it is with my family or an intimate relationship. I like to spend time with loved ones. Fun and games, movie nights, good conversations. I feel quality times is important in any relationship. Another love language I have is physical touch and this is in an intimate relationship I like to show a person affection by touch.
Do you have one of more of these love languages? Which One?
In the face of fear, we often feel weak and powerless. But it is in these moments that our strength is truly tested. With dedication and determination, we can overcome even the most daunting challenges.
Through the trials and tribulations of life, we must learn to face our fears head-on. Whether it be a fear of failure, rejection, or the unknown, we must find the courage to push through and persevere.
In doing so, we discover an inner strength that we may not have known existed. A strength that allows us to achieve the impossible and conquer our greatest fears.
So, when life throws us a curveball and we feel like giving up, let us remember that we are capable of greatness. With dedication and determination, we can push through any obstacle and come out stronger on the other side.
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