Why do we sometimes feel like we cannot tell those close to us the word no, if we do, we feel guilty and question ourselves. We want to help and be there, so we do not like to tell people no. The thing is we know sometimes that the best thing is to say no and know it is the right choice, but we struggle with it. Me I have that problem especially with my kids. I try to please my loved ones no matter what. Yes of course there are times when I am like no and that is final, but still feel bad about it and there are times where I do not know why I feel bad. Why is that? I was also that way with my mom. Is anyone else this way? This is another thing I have changed in my life!
I want to say those two letters and mean it and not feel bad about it or selfish. It’s not to the point where I feel like people are taking advantage, it is just how I feel about saying no and thinking about the other person feelings. Yeah, I often push I how feel to the side, but at this age I am used to it-SIGH-. Just like to help people, I guess. Even though I get told that all the time (LOL).
But now days I have learned that saying no is the best thing to do. It is what is best for me in certain situations. No matter what your feelings are. You have to always put your feelings first.
Can you easily tell a loved one, no? What do you think?
Good morning people happy it is Friday! Today is a little busy but nothing I cannot handle. Making a schedule for next week and my daily and weekend goals. I am trying something new and will see how that goes. Getting my write on of course getting things done today. Hope you all have a good day.
Sending love this Friday. 🖤💜🤎❤🧡💛💚💙
Any goals for the weekend? Any fun plans for the weekend? Are you writing today???
Remember to love yourself and those around you.
Love, Peace, Happiness, Blessings. Have a good day!
The third month of the year and I am feeling good. I feel like I am going in the right direction. Going to keep working on my craft and pushing myself to complete my goals and fulfill my dream.
It is also Women’s History Month!!!!
New month, new goals to set, fresh ideas to let out. Putting pen to paper all month getting things done. February went fast and it was an okay month, got some stuff done for my business and all three books that I am working on. Now time to move on to more better things and goals.
Any new goals for you all? Are any projects coming out? Books/Poetry books?
Excited for this month and going to take it step by step goal by goal. Get It Done!
Just want to post some positive quotes this morning.
Hope you woke up and are ready to start the day. Positive thoughts, and a positive outlook on the day.
If your day gets hectic (as I know it can) Take some breathers, meditate, and find a quiet place to try to relax your mind. I know things don’t go as we want them sometimes, so I like to take some breaths when it doesn’t and try to remain calm.
I want to share these quotes and hope your day is good. Get work done, goals, and projects done. Feeling grateful and thankful. Happy day! Hope you enjoy the quotes.
Sometimes you just must remind yourself that you will succeed, you will win. You will overcome obstacles that are in your way.
Remind yourself to push hard every day and never give up. Keep pushing through it all, even if you must cry, scream, let it all out. Don’t give up.
Sometimes we have to talk to our inner selves and give some pep talks. Let ourselves know that all will be okay. Say you are strong and willing. Say you believe in your dreams, Say you have faith.
Remind yourself that you have your own back.
Just a reminder to take of yourself! Self-Love, Self-Care is the best care!
Okay so everything was fine, and I am writing and then my mom pops up in my head. Oh man that just made me pause and just start balling. Hate this feeling and now feeling a little down. Why does this happen? Now I am going to pray then turn on some music and hopefully stop feeling this way.
UGh shake it off I’m saying to myself. Maybe I need to go to bed. Put the notebooks and pens up and rest. Maybe she is telling me something I don’t know. Whatever music and a shot of something strong, a joint, shower and the damn bed. Just want to feel numb and not think for a while. Crazy months ago, thought I would be done drinking but here I am tonight with all these damn emotions, and a damn drink in hand (SMH). And it is really past my bedtime lol have to be up at 5am (Got To Work! YAY!) plus I have a migraine on top of all this.
Whew! Just venting and a little freaked out. It’s like I am feeling her. Again, have to shake it off….. Get it together. Oh Man, WTF- My feelings tonight.
I Love and miss you mom. R.I.P.
Hope you all night is good! Have a good one.
Blessings and Love!
Thank you for reading.
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