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Unhealthy Habits II

I made a blog about unhealthy habits 3 years ago. Sadly, not so many changes were made. Here I am again in 2025, still needing to change these unhealthy habits. I want and need to start with stopping the smoking of cigarettes. This very unhealthy habit is one I really need to change. Damn unhealthy habits.

It has been on my mind heavily lately, so I know for sure that it is something I need to do. I am turning 38 in a month, and I’m in need of a few changes. I can keep doing the stuff I have been doing. I am proud of myself for getting my diabetes under control, but now I have hypertension, and smoking is bad for both conditions. Bad for my overall health. Ugh, unhealthy habits.

I will be starting the process of quitting cigarettes soon, and I know it will not be easy (though I wish it were). I am willing to put in the work to make this change and this awful unhealthy habit. These unhealthy habits need to be gone. I am thinking about keeping a journal during this process. I want to document both the positive and negative aspects throughout this process. I got this. I need to find new hobbies and need to stay busy. I also need a new way of thinking. Damn unhealthy habits.

Have you tried to stop something you were use to? How did you cope? Any advice for me?

-Unhealthy Habits II-

Blessings and Love!

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First Impression

What's the first impression you want to give people?

A calm and happy first impression
Is what I strive to give
A warm and welcoming expression
Is how I love to live
I offer a gentle smile
And a soothing voice to match
With me, you’ll feel at ease awhile
And your worries will detach
My presence brings a peaceful air
And my words are soft and kind
I’m here to show you that I care
And to ease your troubled mind
So come and sit with me for a while
And let my calmness be your guide
Together, we’ll find a happy smile
And a sense of peace inside

Blessings and Love!

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Fierce

In the way I walk

In the way I talk

Fierce

Let my personality

Shine

My eyes glow

Fierce

My posture

My spiciness

I’m Fierce

And everything nice

True and confident

Black and Beautiful

Fierce

Me coming through

Claiming me

And all that belongs to me

I am indeed

Fierce!

Blessings and Love! πŸ–€πŸ€ŽπŸ’™πŸ’›πŸ’šπŸ§‘πŸ’—πŸ€β€

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Motivation!

I talk, I hype myself in the mirror

Motivation

To do better than yesterday

Motivation

I talk, I hype myself in the mirror

A warrior, strong, even with

Facing difficult days

Motivation

I talk, I hype myself in the mirror

To do what is necessary, tasks for the day

What is best for me

Motivation

No slacking

No excuses

Success on the way!

Motivation

I talk, I hype myself in the mirror

Repeat this ten-letter word!

Over and over

Motivation I have

To keep me going

Wanting more

I’m dedicated

Motivation

I talk, I hype myself in the mirror

Homegirl going to knock down doors

I am here, standing tall, giving, willing

Ready and motivated.

-Motivation-

Blessings and Love.

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T.O.L- 2P’s

Patient, Positive

I am learning to think and be more positive and patient. I used to think that if I had an idea and started working on it, things would happen fast or, as some will say, overnight. I must take my time with things to ensure they are done right. I am not rushing it, but my patience is not good. Lol, I get so anxious and then get angry. Instead of understanding that some things take time, patience is a virtue.

I am glad that I grew up and now fully understand how patience and understanding can go a long way. The same goes for being positive. At times, I used to think the worst instead of having faith that the situation would work out. To make it in life, you must grow and learn as you age.

I say I am making progress by taking the necessary steps to learn new things and, at the same time, learning more about myself. I am so proud of myself that I have come a long way. Though still an overthinker, I am working on that next. One step at a time. One day at a time. You can overcome your past and certain situations. Think positive, have faith, and have patience.

I am just thinking aloud, thinking about how I used to be compared to now. I love the results and am happy to share even though I am kind of rambling, lol. Progress and I am still learning and growing. Love to all who support.

Love, Peace, Happiness, and Blessings

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Be Kind to YOU!

Today, I am in go mode. I am still trying to figure it all out, but even with that, I am going to have a positive day. I am working on accomplishing my goals, taking deep breaths, and keeping pushing.

There is so much work to do, and I am determined. Focused on my dreams. Focused on better.

Just want to say to everyone having a down day to keep your head up and pray about it. Try to find ways to clear your mind. I know it can be hard; bad days happen occasionally, and it is life. Remember, you got this. Focus on yourself and love yourself. Be kind and gentle with yourself. Don’t let what others do or say mess with your mind, body, or spirit. Please be kind to others; you never know what a person is going through. Positive mindset, Positive thinking. Have Faith! Sending Love! πŸ–€πŸ’™πŸ€ŽπŸ’›πŸ’šπŸ§‘πŸ€πŸ’œπŸ’“β€οΈ

We Got This. Strong and Determined. Keep Going!

Let’s Lift one another up!

Let’s reach our goals. Let’s Dream Big

Blessings and Love!

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A Purpose!Β 

Lost in the maze of life’s design 

I search for purpose, a grand design 

I wander through the winding trails 

Hoping that my destiny unveils 

I seek for love, a shining star 

To guide me from the shadows afar 

I yearn for someone to hold my hand 

And lead me to the promised land 

In the quiet of the night, I pray 

For a sign to light my way 

I search for answers in every place 

Hoping to find my rightful space 

Oh, the quest for purpose and love 

A journey that’s always challenging to prove 

But I’ll keep searching, never giving up 

For I know someday, I’ll find my luck 

Still searching…. 

-A Purpose- 

Blessings and Love! πŸ–€πŸ€ŽπŸ’™πŸ’—πŸ’šπŸ§‘β€πŸ€πŸ’œ

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The Negative….Β 

In the depths of my mind, there lies a constant battle 

A struggle to keep the darkness at bay, to keep my thoughts from rattling 

Negative thoughts and fears can be a powerful foe 

Threatening to consume me, to take me down below 

But I am not one to give in so easily 

I fight with all my might to keep my thoughts light and free 

I try to focus on the good on the beauty all around 

And when the darkness creeps in, I work hard to shut it down 

I protect my thoughts like a precious gem 

For they are the key to my happiness, my ultimate zen 

So I take a deep breath and push the darkness aside 

And I fill my mind with positivity, love, and pride 

For though the battle may be long and hard 

I know in my heart that I will always stand guard 

Protecting my thoughts from the negativity and strife 

And living my life to the fullest, with joy and with life. 

Blessings and Love! 

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Be Kind to YOU!

Today, I am in go mode. I am still trying to figure it all out. Even with that, I am going to have a positive day. I am working on accomplishing my goals. I am taking deep breaths and keep pushing.

So much work to do and I am determined. Focused on my dreams. Focused on better.

Just want to say to everyone who is having a down day to keep your head up and pray about it. Try to find ways to clear your mind trust I know it can be hard; bad days happen from time to time, and it is life. Remember you got this. Focus on yourself and love yourself. Be kind and gentle with yourself. Β Don’t let what others do or say mess with your mind, body, or spirit. And please be kind to others, you never know what a person is going through. Positive mindset, Positive thinking. Have Faith! Sending Love! πŸ–€πŸ’™πŸ€ŽπŸ’›πŸ’šπŸ§‘πŸ€πŸ’œπŸ’“β€οΈ

We Got This. Strong and Determined. Keep Going!

Let’s Lift one another up!

Let’s reach our goals. Let’s Dream Big

Blessings and Love!

Thank you for reading.