Not Love!
If it is destroying, you then it is not love
Love should not hurt
Love should not make you sad, make you cry, keep you drained or stressed
If it is hurting you, then it is not love
Love should be a good feeling, should be happy and filled with joy
Not always chaotic
If it is not love….Walk away
Thank you for reading.
Just want to give a big ass shout out to all my Beautiful, Gorgeous, women out there. Keep being strong
We all know how it go.
It be days like this. Just don’t want to be bothered with the world…. And sometimes it makes shit more fucked up…Ladies am I Alone??
Yesss. Shout out to Mary J Blige for this song..
Feels right now….
Hello all, my blog peeps. Tonight, I am not cool…..
So, I just posted a poem earlier I wrote about me being tired of my past having a tight ass hold on me. Is there anyone else like this? Where you seem like you cannot escape it, the past? Sometimes I hate that I replay past situations in my head. Then here I am on a damn emotional rollercoaster. Sometimes I just want revenge, I want to do harm, I want to unleash the beast. It gets crazy in this head of mines, and I try to contain it all. I also question why am I like this, why can’t I let it all go? Ugh. I just want some people to fucking suffer. Is that a bad thing? Damn these scars I have.
BREATHE
It is too much right now. I need to get back to focus.
Okay! Whew had to let that out. I am still a work in progress and have thoughts like this from time to time. Was triggered a little today and it had me in a mood. Just venting don’t know if I am the only one. I must continue to pray. I felt close to the edge.
Praying on it and hopefully sleep good and better afterwards. Of course, my blog is my therapy. Please don’t judge me. Just had a fucked-up moment. LET IT Out!!!!
I am trying…WHEW
Again, BREATHE
Thank you for reading.
Snow!
Snow falling, sweet memories
Hot chocolate in hand
Feeling cozy, feeling love
Watching the snowfall
Looking pretty and peaceful
Thinking of happy thoughts
With a warm heart
Snow falling, keeping me still, content
I love watching the snowfall
Fond of what it brings to my spirit
Love winter, Love snow
The beautiful snowfall!
Thanks for reading!
#Snow #Poetry #JustWrite
Monday night quotes.
Quotes I am sharing tonight spoke to me about self-love and care and about following your dreams. It is important to treat ourselves right and do what is best for ourselves.
These are not my words. Just saw these quotes and I love them, and I hope they speak to you all as well. Become the best you that you can!!! I want everyone to succeed!
Just wanted to share them.
“Never ever stop believing in yourself. You are born to make it big.”
“Never let life impede on your ability to manifest your dreams. Dig deeper into your dreams and deeper into yourself and believe that anything is possible, and make it happen”
“The worst thing you can do is let someone get comfortable with treating you wrong.”
“You define your own life. Don’t let other people write your script”
Blessings and Love!
Thank you for reading.
Tonight, wanted to share some quotes
Yes Indeed! I love these quotes
Hope you enjoy!!
Quotes tonight!
Life and love.
Live and learn!
Be Patient
Blessings
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My thoughts, My Saturday night. Writing!
Hello, this Saturday night is going quite well. Of course, I am writing and have gotten so much done. I love when I can sit and concentrate on my writing. Just letting the pen flow. I just started working on chapters in my 2nd book, and it is coming along great. I have been working on the short stories book, and the 1st one I started and forgot about the 2nd one, but tonight the ideas are coming, and I am just writing and chilling. The hard part is a title for the book, yes, it is true no title yet, but I am thinking of some and writing them down. hopefully, soon I will have one picked out.
Wondering if I should start an outline for it, do not know yet. I am doing mystery and urban fiction, and I think it will turn out great. I might share some parts from some of the books. Stay tuned.
How is your night going? Hope all is well. As always, thank you for reading. Have a great night.
Remember to love yourself always. Blessings
Thank you.
#JustWrite #AuGetItDone
Relationship Talk! #JustWrite
I am Not an expert. Just my feelings
Hay people, I want to talk about two of the biggest things in a relationship that I have to have. Number one is communication; this is a big deal for me especially going forward with my life. I want a person I can be able to talk to and after talking have a clear understanding on whatever that was discussed. Communication is big in a relationship, it is good if you and your partner can communicate very well when I say this I mean about any and everything. You and your partner can sit and talk and express how you feel. Communication was one of the reasons my last relationship of 11 years did not work out. I got tired of repeating myself and trying to express what was on my mind the other person never wanted to talk or want to hear me and it was so stressful and irritating. You should be able to talk to the one you love and hope that they understand you. Listen to each other and have each other’s back.
Number two is the trust which is a must. I know some will understand me on this. In a relationship, you must trust your partner and believe in them. I do not see how you can have a relationship without trust and that is for any relationship type. You must trust a person with your heart, with your feelings, judgment, skills, and financial situations, and what they tell you. You must trust that between the two it will work out, putting your all into someone that you feel has your best interest at heart and that is a big thing to trust. It is not easy. Not talking about just cheating everything above and trusting that they can do the basic responsibilities in life. Can that person keep their word? Can they be who they say they are?. So much to consider and again it is hard especially when meeting a new person. If you have relationships based on lies it will not work, you must have a foundation built on love, trust, communication, understanding, strength, faith, and patience. Yes, it can be hard finding this but have faith. You have to work at it, relationships are hard work. I pray everyone finds love, has faith and loves with your all.
What do you need in a relationship? What is a deal-breaker for you? #JustWrite.
Thanks for reading. Please share your thoughts.
updated 2*11*2022
Having power
When you hear this word what does it mean to you? Does it mean wealthy and successful to you? Does it mean being a bully to you? Does it mean having it all, getting it by any means? To me, I see it both ways people use it when they are rich and have it all and some use it to get over on people and hurt them.
There were times when I heard a few people say I have the power to do whatever I want, the power to get what I need. They say they always get what they want, no matter what it takes. I often wonder what the hell do they mean by that. Does it mean that things go away when money is involved or will they try to buy you, manipulate, blackmail you? It makes you think without power where would some people really be? What they career would be like without power. Money and power are most often used for evil in my opinion greed get to people and they feel invincible. I could be wrong but never knew of someone who used money or power for good. Again, I might be wrong lol just my opinions. Maybe they do to cover up their wrongdoings I do not know. Or maybe I watch too much tv and read a lot of books. I feel like any person in any career field can possess a sense of power when it comes to their job and how they go about doing it. Or having sensitive information on people
I think that me from time to time being controlling is a sense of power. I want everyone to listen to what I say and do what I say, it is not a strong sense of power but a little of it. It is with family not used to make people do what they do not want to or hurt them.
If you had power and were rich, what will you do with it? Will it be used for evil or good?
Just a thought tonight. What do you think about having too much power?
Blessings and Love!
Thank you for reading.
Just Write 