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Loving The Wrong Person

Hello, my blog peeps!

Have you been in a situation where you felt it was all bad, so negative? Have you loved the wrong person before?

Loving the wrong person and being in love by yourself is disturbing and not good at all. Even when you see the signs and know that you should walk away, you love so hard, give your all and the other person does not care at all. But here you are still trying. Loving the wrong person will hurt you to your core. Being everything to them while hurting yourself, along with your mental and rational thinking out the door. It will have you questioning yourself all the time. Wondering if you are good enough. But of course, when you love someone, you will try your hardest to make it work and go the distance. You feel like you shouldn’t give up on them. Loving the wrong person can take away your smile and maybe lower your self-esteem; loving the wrong person can take a lot of you. You might feel like you will never love again. You are scared that it will happen again.

I feel I can speak on this subject somewhat because I have been there and was left feeling lost and hurt. I was in so much pain because I thought it was forever with this person (Silly Me). A reason why I am so guarded now. That feeling of being scared to fall in love again. I was loving the wrong damn person, and it had cost me. Yes, I am still healing from it and learning to deal with the issues and be okay no matter what. Loving the wrong person is so damn draining. Please, people, pay attention to those red flags that arrive; do not ignore them. Always talk about it to get an understanding. Loving the wrong person made me more aware, cautious, guarded, and distant. Though with all of that I do wish to love again and find someone special. Where I am for them, and they are for me.

Feel free to use this as a writing prompt if you like? What do you think of this topic?

Just thinking! Maybe Venting!

Have you been there before? How did you deal with it?

Have a good one!

Blessings and Love! 🖤🤎💙💛💗💚🧡💜🤍❤

Thank you for reading.

Heal (Trying)

Healing

Trying to heal and be okay with myself deep down inside. I want to be happy and I know that I will not heal over night. I read books of inspiration and also read inspirational quotes.

This process is hard but I am willing to try hard to overcome everything. Shout out to all of those who been there and made it back from it. And to those who are fighting battles and trying their hardest to overcome them. We got this. Prayer and guidance.

I have included in this blog some quotes on healing. I like them.

Thank you for reading.

It is not. It will take some time. Be Patience. I know I am!

The Turning Point

My Turning Point!!

Looking out for others can be good sometimes, but not always. There are people who like to take your kindness for weakness, and that is sad. This is a turning point.

I cannot continue to help you while you hurt me, while you put me down. Yes, it will be painful to let go but I must. This is a turning point, no more of this, helping you with tears in my eyes and a smile on your face thinking how you treat me is funny, it’s game to you.

It seems that the more I help and be there, holding on to past love, the more I hurt, hurting myself by accepting this. But baby, this here is my turning point, my turning point, my turning point.

It is time. It is over. I am moving on. I choose me, again I CHOOSE ME.

My turning point.

#JustWrite

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True Love!!

True Love!

Searching

Looking, wishing for

A

True love

Love that does not hurt me

Love that sees me, wants me

His love and only me

Love with us being friend’s

Soul mates

Searching, Looking

Wishing for a

True love

Love that holds me

Holding tight

I am safe

Love that brings warmth

Happiness

Love that grows

Searching, Looking

Wishing for a

True love

Love with communication

Love that trust

A great bond

Searching, Looking

Wishing for a

True love

Love with chemistry

Intimacy

Love with faith

Love with hope, light

Searching, Looking

Wishing for a

True love

Love that faces problems

But still, love

Love that is strong

Powerful

Love with dreams

Long-lasting love

I am

Searching

Looking

And

Wishing for and

Wanting a

True love!

Blessings and Love!

Thank you for reading.

Sunday Quotes!

Today’s quotes are from Ntozake Shange

“Where there is a woman there is magic. If there is a moon falling from her mouth, she is a woman who knows her magic, who can share or not share her powers. A woman with a moon falling from her mouth, roses between her legs and tiaras of Spanish moss, this woman is a consort of the spirits.”
― Ntozake Shange

“let her be born / let her be born / & handled warmly.”
― Ntozake Shange, For Colored Girls Who Have Considered Suicide / When the Rainbow Is Enuf

Ntozake Shange 1948-2018 she was a Black feminist, a poet, and playwright

For more about Ntozake Shange: https://www.britannica.com/biography/Ntozake-Shange

Blessings!

Thank you.

#BlackWomen #Poets #Quotes

Focus!

Tonight I am focused and working on my writing, going good so far.

Just trying to keep at it and get these chapters done. Type them up and edit, then write again. Edit Edit Edit….Get it done, Homegirl!!!

I’ve got music going, and my pen, notebook, and computer are ready. I’m feeling great at the moment. This is a short post tonight. How is your night going? Are you working on any projects? Do you have any fun plans tonight?

My Vibes tonight

Blessings.

Thank you for reading.

https://writeblg.com/2022/02/19/s-n-t-2-19-2022/

https://writeblg.com/2021/12/19/chill-2/

M.N.Q….

Monday night quotes.


The quotes I am sharing tonight spoke to me about self-love and care and about following your dreams. It is important to treat ourselves right and do what is best for ourselves.

These are not my words. I just saw these quotes, and I love them. I hope they speak to you all as well. Become the best you that you can! I want everyone to succeed!

Just wanted to share them.



“Never ever stop believing in yourself. You are born to make it big.”


“Never let life impede on your ability to manifest your dreams. Dig deeper into your dreams and deeper into yourself and believe that anything is possible, and make it happen”





“The worst thing you can do is let someone get comfortable with treating you wrong.”




“You define your own life. Don’t let other people write your script”



Blessings and Love!


Thank you for reading.

It Is Up To You (Life)

Happy Friday

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It is up to you (Life)

Life is full of challenges

It is up to you to how you face them or handle them

Life is full of choices

It is up to you to make the right ones

Life is full of chances

It is up to you to take them

Life is full of dreams

It is up to you to follow yours

Life is full of life

Your life is in your hands

No one can make your decisions for you

In life

It is up to you!

Thank you for reading.

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