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Dedicated soul
Striving for excellence each day
Persevering with grit and grace
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Never
Never lower yourself for a person who shows and or tell you that they do not care for or love you
Never stay stuck in an unpleasant situation if it’s bad leave (Easier said than done)
I know, try to get out of it no matter what
Never say yes when deep down inside and in your mind, you want and need to say no
Never lower yourself/expectations based on what others think or what other want
Never pretend to be someone else.
Never change yourself for someone. You are enough the way you are
Never worry about what they say worry about you
Never give up on yourself know that you are loved
Know that you are worthy, you got it
Never give them the satisfaction of seeing you down and out
Chin up move forward
Chin up be STRONG
Never be Un-YOU
I say never to many things. I have been there before in a dark place. Loving and giving my all to a person who showed me they didn’t give a damn about me and what I was going through and at that time in my life it was too much going on. A person showed me their true self and it took a while to realize and understand it all. I was just giving and giving, and I was only receiving heartache from family and friends SMH. It was not good. I say never again. If you are in a situation that you feel is not safe or you should not be there or around certain people, leave and Never look back.
-Never-
Have a good one. Love, Peace, Happiness, and Blessings all
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Fly!
Fly be free
Spread your wings and fly
Fly high and above
Above those who said you would not make it
Spread your wings and fly
Fly with a smile and pride
Fly and leave the troubles and problems behind
Spread your wings and fly
Fly freely controlling your own life
Fly and become your dreams
Fly and take those risk
Spread your wings and fly
Fly freely and be you!
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Forget…
Forget
Want to let it all go
Forget the past, forget the humiliation
Forget the hurt, forget it all
Forget the people who played a part in my hurt
Forget those who knew but did not help, looked away
Forget those who said they care, but really do not
Forget the feelings I had, forget my tears
Forget get being a child, forget all of my childhood
Damn
Forget having too much weight on my shoulders
Forget getting over shit alone and afraid
Damn yall
I just want to forget
Forget it all…
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Fully Open!
To Fully be open
Let my story show
Express my feelings, thoughts and
The realness of me
To be fully open
To new opportunities, businesses, life
Live free
To fully be open and
Put myself out there
Take risks be open to
New friends, new love, relationships
Fully be open
Express all of me
Learning daily how to
Fully open up and
Just go for what I want
To be open
Fear free
Finally living for me
To fully be open
Something I am
Working on
Most definitely!
-Fully Open!-
Blessings and Love!
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Prompt 2!
Write about your approach to budgeting.
Write about your approach to budgeting.
I am not that good at budgeting money. It is something I need to work on. Sometimes I can be reckless with spending money, especially with stuff for my kids. There are times when I try to keep a budget and keep up with all my spending, but it never goes well. I don’t know why but I need to change that. Trying to save to buy a house so some of my spending habits have to stop.
So, no approach here really just goes with the flow. Do you budget out everything? Any tips?
Have good one
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Loving The Wrong Person
Hello, my blog peeps!
Have you been in a situation where you felt it was all bad, so negative? Have you loved the wrong person before?
Loving the wrong person and being in love by yourself is disturbing and not good at all. Even when you see the signs and know that you should walk away, you love so hard, give your all and the other person does not care at all. But here you are still trying. Loving the wrong person will hurt you to your core. Being everything to them while hurting yourself, along with your mental and rational thinking out the door. It will have you questioning yourself all the time. Wondering if you are good enough. But of course, when you love someone, you will try your hardest to make it work and go the distance. You feel like you shouldn’t give up on them. Loving the wrong person can take away your smile and maybe lower your self-esteem; loving the wrong person can take a lot of you. You might feel like you will never love again. You are scared that it will happen again.
I feel I can speak on this subject somewhat because I have been there and was left feeling lost and hurt. I was in so much pain because I thought it was forever with this person (Silly Me). A reason why I am so guarded now. That feeling of being scared to fall in love again. I was loving the wrong damn person, and it had cost me. Yes, I am still healing from it and learning to deal with the issues and be okay no matter what. Loving the wrong person is so damn draining. Please, people, pay attention to those red flags that arrive; do not ignore them. Always talk about it to get an understanding. Loving the wrong person made me more aware, cautious, guarded, and distant. Though with all of that I do wish to love again and find someone special. Where I am for them, and they are for me.
Feel free to use this as a writing prompt if you like? What do you think of this topic?
Just thinking! Maybe Venting!
Have you been there before? How did you deal with it?
Have a good one!
Blessings and Love! 🖤🤎💙💛💗💚🧡💜🤍❤
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Heal (Trying)
Healing
Trying to heal and be okay with myself deep down inside. I want to be happy and I know that I will not heal over night. I read books of inspiration and also read inspirational quotes.
This process is hard but I am willing to try hard to overcome everything. Shout out to all of those who been there and made it back from it. And to those who are fighting battles and trying their hardest to overcome them. We got this. Prayer and guidance.
I have included in this blog some quotes on healing. I like them.
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It is not. It will take some time. Be Patience. I know I am!
Unwanted
That feeling of being unwanted
Feeling unwanted. Pushed away, casted out
When all I hear is
We don’t want you
You don’t belong
Unwanted
Hearing them loud and clear
Hear it in my mind
Hear it in my heart
Unwanted
I question myself constantly
Is it how I look?
Is it how I talk? Or act?
Unwanted
Feeling unheard, hidden
Feeling misunderstood at times
Thinking how can I be better
For them
Unwanted
Alone
No one by my side
Walking that lonely road
That feeling all my life
Unwanted
That feeling of no love
Thinking would it always be this way?
Is there something wrong with me
Unwanted
And searching for
Someone to hear me, see me and
Love me
In this world of chaos
Just unwanted
That feeling that I don’t like.
-Unwanted-
Blessings and Love
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More by Ray’Elaine
To Keep Your Cool!
When the heat of the moment starts to rise
And tempers flare before our eyes
Remember to take a deep breath or two
And count to ten before you do.
Find a quiet place to clear your head
And focus on your thoughts instead
Take a walk or listen to some music
To calm your nerves and help you choose it.
Think about the situation at hand
And what you can do to take a stand
But always keep your cool and be kind
To find a solution that’s fair and aligned.
So, when the world around you starts to spin
And you feel like you just can’t win
Remember to stay calm and stay true
And you’ll find a way to make it through.
Just Keep Your Cool!!
Blessings and Love!
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