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Understanding it

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Understanding It

To those who needs these words:

Give yourself time to understand and deal with a situation do not give up hope. We often lose hope, and some people often give up. Please do not, see your worth and move forward. Have the courage to break through the pain, push through. You have to do it for yourself. You can do it be strong. Try to understand what’s going with you get to the real issues and fix it I been through it, so I know it’s hard, damn hard, but with faith and good and loving support around you it will get better. For anyone going through tough times and darkness and depression please get help, you are not alone.

Wishing the best, Prayers and love to those in need and do not forget to love those around you and of course yourself. Love and Happiness Love Faith, Love and Commitment

Just a reminder to LOVE yourself through it all.

Blessings and Love!

Thank you.

A Random Poem!

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Drink

From the fountain of wisdom, strength, dedication

Passion and love

To satisfy my

Desire

To feel happiness

At its higher level

Stability

Switch

From the person I was before

My head was swelled with

All the negative

The wrongs

Came a long way

But

Through it all

I am relishing

Thriving

Exciting

My dreams coming true!

Blessings and Love!

Thank you for reading.

Goals!

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Goals!

Hello, Today, I want to talk about goals. What do goals mean to you? When I say goals, I mean all kinds: short-term, long-term, love goals, career goals, and mental goals. I have been thinking lately and decided to change things, and that means my goals,ttoo.

My long-term goals needed a little tweaking. Have you ever felt like the goals you have can be better? That is the feeling I have now. Some of them were out there, and it is best to set goals that are attainable. It is best I make better life choices and decisions. Do you guys have career goals? I do, I want to be a great author who tells stories my readers will love and can relate to. I want to write in all genres. You know, try a little of this and try a little of that till I find what I am good at writing. What about love goals, I have heard there are people who set love goals for themself, now I have never done it and feel like it will be hard to do but to each is own. Have you guys heard of this, or have you set love goals for yourself? Will you care to share them? Short-term goals are goals I find a little easy to me. They are my weekly and monthly goals, which sometimes are met. I say easy because they are not challenging. I think that setting goals keeps a person grounded. Goals remind you that you must stay focused. I think that getting yourself together and setting goals for yourself that you know you can manage and work on is great. It is always a good thing to reach higher once a goal is completed, go on to the next, or set more. Never stop trying to achieve them. We have goals for a reason.

Blessings and Love!

Thank you for reading,

#JustWrite #Goals

Being Productive!

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Daily writing prompt
When do you feel most productive?
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I feel most productive when I am super busy. When I am cleaning and getting my house in order, I feel productive when I complete tasks and goals that I have set.

Of course, I feel most productive when I am writing. It does not matter if I am writing for my blog, writing in my journals, writing poetry, or writing for my books. My writing days are days that I feel I am the most productive and keeping busy with family life and writing.

I love having a very productive day and getting the important things done.

How about you?

Blessings and Love!

Thank you for reading.

Me VS Anxiety!

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The weight of the world on my shoulders 

I feel it bearing down on me 

My heart races, my palms sweat 

As I struggle to breathe 

The world around me seems ominous 

A dark cloud hovering overhead 

My thoughts race, my mind heavy 

As I lay awake in bed 

I try to shake these feelings 

To push them out of my head 

But they linger, a constant presence 

As I go about my day 

Anxiety grips me tightly 

A constant shadow by my side 

But I know I must keep moving 

Must push through the tide 

Even though the road ahead is challenging 

And my mind may be heavy still 

I know that I am strong enough 

To overcome this uphill thrill 

So I take a deep breath and step forward 

Ready to face the day 

With strength and courage by my side 

I will find my own way 

It’s Me VS Anxiety! 

Blessings and Love! 

Thank you for reading. 

***Can be used as a writing prompt!!***

Book #2

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Damn, cannot lie. Writing part two of my first published book is hard work.

I mean it is so challenging. But hey I am here for it. Just Write. Get It Done

I am writing for my books and blogging, but I am about to do a little editing. It’s my night. Chill for now. Music, Some Smoke, Cocktails… VIBE!

My mind is on someone tonight, but writing right now is helping. Keep at it and get my goals completed.

DUH!

Have a good one my blog peeps! Happy Writing!

Blessings and Love! 🖤💙💛💛🤎💙💚🧡💟❤

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Books by Ray’Elaine

Worry….ME

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Are you a person who can easily walk away from challenging situations? Are you a person who can easily forgive? Easily forget the negative.

I am not that person. I worry too much and think about the past way too much. Something I do not like about myself. I am always on edge, and thinking about my past makes it worse, and then anxiety kicks in. Wish it were easy for me to forget stuff, to forgive, and to trust more. Want to easily walk away with no wounds. Wishful thinking huh? Yeah, it is annoying at times, and wish I could just leave the negative shit in the past. I worry too much it is crazy. Again, wish I can easily walk away from all the bad. Worrying a lot is stressful.

Ugh, too much on my mind right now, and I want to get away. Head spinning and mind racing fast. Have you ever had one of those days? Praying for it as always. Just writing to get my thoughts and feelings and vent out. Sometimes I have to whether it is a negative post or not. I just want to be able to forgive and forget. I am me, and right now, I am worrying and having anxiety, I must admit writing does help as it calms me for a moment. Praying for all of those having those bad days. Breathe and pray about it. Have faith.

Blessings and Love!

Thank you for reading.

Love or Lust??

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Crazy: Love, Lust


Hello everyone,

Y’all know that feeling. The feeling of being in love or you think you are. You’re in the stage of feeling all the emotions like all of them. You don’t like them or their ways; everything irritates you. You question everything, wondering if you made the right decision or if it is LUST. Is it real, or are they using you, or are you using them? What is it? You love them, you hate them sometimes need space from each other. I call it the test phase where both parties like to test each other and push buttons and get reactions.

Smh but that’s what happens when you are really not sure if it’s love or lust or if it’s the person you really want. Sometimes it can be just sex that keep two people together, there is no real love between them. Some might think so but NO. Why do we put ourselves in situations like this? If it is real love, it will not hurt you, make you feel low and sad, or have you second-guessing yourself. I’m just saying this love thang can be Crazy. Seriously 😂

Am I the only one who thinks so? I get there will be ups and downs in relationships, but if they are constant and you feel stuck, it’s too much to deal with, or you feel like you both cannot get on better terms, LEAVE. I feel a person should not settle or put up with BS just to not be or feel alone. What do you guys think? Do you choose love or lust?


Blessings All
Thank you for reading.


**Not an expert. Just my thoughts please feel free to like, comment, and share**

T.O.L-Dating!

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Date or No?

Questioning myself lately and asking am I ready to date? Thinking about relationships, love, and having someone by my side. Getting that lonely feeling. Just a little scared, honestly, of putting myself out there and letting my guard down. I also think that it is time to at least try to meet new people. I am a homebody and I need to get out of that. Want to live a little and be happy enjoying my life. My life consists of motherhood, working, and writing all day, every day. Do some different things. Just doing a little thinking, well, of course, and it’s on my mind. Just don’t know when I would work up the courage to actually do it. Lol.

I am still a work in progress and still trying to learn to trust. Blah Blah Blah my life is boring…. Thinking out loud.

Blessings and love!

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Lessons II

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There are lessons we learn in life. Whether we like it or not. We have the choice of deciding how we deal with it. We can choose to change things, accept what the lesson is and learn from it. Or we can continue to make the same mistakes. Ignoring what the lesson is and keep going down the wrong path. Again, we have choices. We must choose wisely. With everything in life.

Learn from it and move on and do better.

Lessons… What is life without them!

Have a good one!

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Lessons

Those Lessons!!! It is LIFE!